Just wondering about sex after having a baby... we have 10 week old ds and have not dtd since he was born. Until recently I didnt want to (difficult birth, didn't feel recovered) but I now feel ready to try - but I don't know when?! During the day is a no go as ds won't settle alone for long enough. And at night we go to bed at different times to maximise our sleep. Just wondering how other couples have managed it?! Once when dp's parents were staying his mum had the baby downstairs and we ended up fooling around a bit when we went up for a nap but that's honestly all we've done in over 2 months. What have other peoples sex lives been like after a baby and when do you find time?! Before ds was born we had an active sex life probably 3-4 times a week including during pregnancy. I miss the intimacy.