Do nay of your have partners who don't like oral - either giving or recieving?

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My DP of 2 years doesn't. We have talked about it a lot and I totally respect his wishes and feelings.
It's sad for me because that always used to be my favourite part of sex with previous partners.
Is anyone else in my boat?

I’ve got to my 40s without meeting anyone who doesn’t like receiving. And there is no invite to the bedroom for anyone who won’t offer.

I have had many partners over the years and he is the only one I have ever met who doesn't care for it.
In the early stages of our relationship he would but then kept finding excuses not to.
He is a good man and I love him I just find it odd that he doesn't like it.

My ex wife didn't like it. "It tickles". Every woman I've met since likes it.

My ex hated giving, in the 6 year relationship he didn't do it once. He loved receiving though.

It would be a deal breaker for me. I love to give and receive so I expect the same in return or no go. I've never met a man who doesn't like to receive though.

I had a partner who wouldn't accept oral, she just wouldn't tolerate it. I think she was unusual.

I've refused oral from previous partners. I must state these were one night stands and they weren't the classiest of men and gave me the ick.
I've only met one man who didn't attempt it and avoided it completely, which I think was completely down to confidence.
And at the time we were in our late 30's!!

I definitely think he lacks confidence. Although he's been with many people I don't think he really knows what to do.
However, he is one of the most decent, loving men I have ever met- I am in my 50's now and am in this for the long haul after years in a abusive relationship.
I suspect his aversion to it is due to complex psychological issues too.

Have you asked him about it?

I was unfortunate enough to have not experienced oral until a couple of years ago. Every woman / girl I dated / went out with, including my xw all refused point blank to even try...

I'm always willing to give - I really enjoy it (despite a lack of recent practice... ) , and now that I've discovered the joys of receiving, I'm not going back!

I’ve met a couple of women who didn't like receiving and a few more who didn't like giving and many more who like giving provided you don't orgasm.

I know a few men that dont like giving but non who dont like receiving

I have asked him- on more than one occasion. He says it is not an active dislike but more a take it or leave it thing. I have let him know that it is important to me, but I suspect that it is because he lacks confidence. He did try it once but tbh it was crap. He didn't seem to know where anything was!
I suspect most of his sexual encounters have been tedious ( for the women involved), but as I say he is very wonderful as a person and pleasures me in other ways.
i just can't get my head round a man who doesn't want a blow job!

I'm a F with a M , I'm happy to give but don't like receiving. Seems from MN I'm in the minority though.

I'm a man....I absolutely love giving and receiving....and my DP is the same....she loves me to go down On her....my ex hated it....everyone is different....only thing I would add is never feel you have to do what you are uncomfortable with....conversation is an absolute must....I learned that the difficult way....

Seems strange you've made it past 2 years and only addressing this now... I think it helps to be comfortable with who's doing the giving. But everyone is different. I'll be honest that although I have had some amazing Orgasms via oral it doesn't blow me away 90% of the time. Which is frustrating. I think that's in my head though. I don't like looking down seeing someone between my legs. Just doesn't look sexy lol! My partner likes me to sit on his face too. Says he loves it. But again I feel I'm doing it more for his pleasure not mine as I can't imagine what I must look like from that angle.

@cosmicbabe I can see that that would seem odd. He has been my first partner after years in the desert. I had left a very abusive ex and was severely lacking in confidence and didn’t want to rock the boat. Ex although technically a good lover would never countenance discussions about sex. He saw it as a slight and would get angry. I guess it was a hangover from al of that.