Partner sometimes does not ejaculate.

[lindtlovers]

It doesn't bother him. It doesn't bother me physically but is this a thing?
We have a vibrant , regular and adventurous sex life . He has no issues with erections but he has never cum from me giving him a hand job or blow job despite being hugely aroused . He doesn't care, he is so happy and almost in another world .
He cums every second time we sleep together , normally from doggy position but also with me on top, spoons and missionary . We both prefer doggy position.
I've just never been in such a happy and satisfying relationship where my partner doesn't cum every time so I'm a little confused . We play for hours and he is a very generous lover.

It's not that unusual. It sounds as though you both enjoy your sex life so why worry?

Thanks. I'm really not worried but I've never had such a partner before . Ever .

Age may be a factor....I'm mid fifties.....if we've had sex and I have ejaculated and then (if I'm very lucky), we try again three or hours later I will easily get hard again but may not come....it just is now men are and nothing to be concerned about....

You are happy. He is happy. End of. 😀

How old is he?

Is he on ADs?

How often does he wank?

How often do you have sex?

Is he in good health?

All these things can have an effect. If he was a healthy 20 yo, not on ADs, not wanking and not having sex more than once a week that would be unusual.

I'm a man. I've had loads of partners from ONS to 20-year marriage, and I've never in my life cum from someone giving me a blowjob or handjob.

Thanks z he's late 40's , no ads, wanks once a week ,, minimal porn use these days .
Says he has always been like this in all
Relationships .
We are happy . I've just never experienced that

DP (28) doesn't always cum. It's no problem, we have a lot of fun. It's about the journey, not the destination!

For me there used to be a point where the old chap had been desensitised due to too much activity and no matter what happened i wasn't going to cum. Just one of those things. No biggie.

Can't advise but I have never had a partner who didn't cum at all every time. It isn't the norm men don't but it happens.

My only comment in my DH is it would be helpful if he didn't cum as much as it is loads of wiping if we have had a morning one. So maybe you do have an upside but then I would keep asking myself why he didn't cum

@PinotPony

DP (28) doesn't always cum. It's no problem, we have a lot of fun. It's about the journey, not the destination!

I quite agree with that.

Sometimes when trying to prolong the enjoyment I would occasionally "miss the moment". A lthough it could be a bit frustrating I didn't see it as a problem or unusual. As long as you're both having fun don't worry about it.

I understand, OP. I'd find it really off-putting/worrying. But I don't have a dick so I don't know what the parameters are for 'normal' function.

All I do know is that I absolutely adore the moment when he comes and all that amazing stuff just squirts out. And I've never had a relationship where that hasn't happened. So if it didn't, I'd feel v sad. And a bit frustrated.

And more than anything, I'd worry that if I felt the lack of it, what must HE feel like??

(I don't think that's a popular response - maybe a bit too open - but I suspect that's what OP is worrying about/feeling a bit)

Doesn’t sound too unusual for someone in his late 40’s, that’s about when it started to happen to me, don’t worry too much unless it becomes more frequent

I didn't come for about a week when I first started having sex. Too nervous and worried about premature ejaculation. But that passed and I relaxed. Never came with oral , it's too tickly and anyway I'd be mortified