Cuckolding

[ReadyforTakeOff]

I am a guy who likes the thought of watching my wife with other men. Anyone tried it or have husbands into it?

I'm not male, so not much use to your query, but...
Is your wife as interested in this as you are?
Are you looking for 'the benefit of hindsight' from guys who have done this?

I was part of a wonderful cuckolding relationship for about a year. It ended only because I moved away. There was a strong bond of friendship that built up between me and the husband, and the three of us had a really caring rapport. I still drop in to see them when and if I am passing.

Yes I have although the couples I meet are not cuckold couples. They are hotwife couples, voyeurs and exhibitionist.

Cuckold relationship are based on degrading the partner.

This is completely different to the scenarios I've enjoyed.

Thanks all. Have raised it with the wife and she seems keen on the idea.

Interested in knowing opinions from both sides really. I have a type of man and scenario in mind and like the thought of playing it out for real.

@ReadyforTakeOff
This is something I have a keen interest in... There are specific websites for cuckolding - pm me if interested in finding out more details.

As the female of the species here - I’d also suggest that the ‘type of man’ is actually discussed and possibly adjusted in a conversation with your W. As it needs to work for her too, not just you.

As to places to find people interested in various ways to push boundaries - try Killing Kittens. You can find single men, and generally people open to all sorts of scenarios there.

Josuk - thanks and valid points. And yes, the sort of man I would like to see her with very much appeals to her as well. I was quite clear about how I think this would work and she was very much on board..

@Josuk

As the female of the species here - I’d also suggest that the ‘type of man’ is actually discussed and possibly adjusted in a conversation with your W. As it needs to work for her too, not just you.

As to places to find people interested in various ways to push boundaries - try Killing Kittens. You can find single men, and generally people open to all sorts of scenarios there.

Another vote for KK here. Lovely community on the chat groups. My DP and I already have a MMF lined up for post-lockdown! Plus a MFMF and various other assortments. 😂

Pinot, sounds great. I am not bothered about joining in to be honest - more for my viewing pleasure. May video it if all are happy with that.

I meet a Hotwife. I first met them as a couple. I didn't know about the Hotwife side to begin with.

I think they like me because I'm playing by their rules. I'm not pushy. Although I have a bit of a WhatsApp banter with the lady I don't bombard her with messages.

I'm not wanting to settle down myself so I'm not going to try to steal her away from her fella. I'm just going with the flow and they seem to like that.

Oh and unlike cuckolding. There is no degradation of the husband involved. Yes he gets turned on by knowing what we've done but not a n a demeaning way.

I've chatted to a couple of guys on KK who wanted to "bull" for a cuckold couple but my DP doesn't enjoy the humiliation so we've politely declined.

I have a certain type in mind but he won't be degrading me, that's for sure. He will be used for a task then sent away.

I am not a shy type at all - I just like to watch her with someone else, that's all really.

@ReadyforTakeOff

I have a certain type in mind but he won't be degrading me, that's for sure. He will be used for a task then sent away.

I am not a shy type at all - I just like to watch her with someone else, that's all really.

That's not cuckoldry. Cucks don't get to direct what lover the wife takes. She takes what she wants whether you like it or not and they make fun of your small penis.

If that's not your scene, then do your research on hotwives and stag and vixen couples.

I appear to have got my definitions wrong but you know what I mean..

I'm also interested in the hotwife scene - just saying!

@ReadyforTakeOff

I appear to have got my definitions wrong but you know what I mean..

Looks like you're just looking for a MMF set up then. Sure you'll have no problem finding volunteers.

Just bear in mind that he is a person too with emotions and feelings. I think there can be a tendency to think guys are just up for a shag but it's important that he doesn't feel he's just there for your enjoyment and fun. Ask him what he'd like to get out of the experience too. 😀

I think you mean a stag and vixen scenario. Your wife is the most beautiful woman in the world and you get aroused at the thought of other men desiring her and
respecting her and you get satisfaction knowing that she is enjoying herself and feeling gorgeous. But she is your Queen, and you will not allow her to be mistreated in any way. L Sound familiar? It's quite popular and any woman whose husband feels like that is very lucky.

This is me and my husband. We enjoy MFM. Sometimes he just watches. Sometimes he isnt there and just hears about it. We dont enjoy cuckold fantasies..if we are ever approached online by someone describing themselves as a "bull", it's an instant block. 99% of the time bull means an egotistical nob that thinks he is an alpha. A true alpha doesnt need to declare it. Other people do it for him. He is so confident that he can allow his wife limitless freedoms knowing that she will always return to him. It takes a very confident man to pull this off and only makes me more attracted to my husband.

If you are going to do it, look for someone that is specifically looking for an mfm. Someone that wants YOU there. Not someone that just tolerates your presence so they can get sex they wouldnt otherwise be able to get.

We do lots of other things too with couples and girls we have got to know over the years but this remains probably the most intimate and erotic act we indulge in.

Enjoy x

@Natalialikes

I think you mean a stag and vixen scenario. Your wife is the most beautiful woman in the world and you get aroused at the thought of other men desiring her and respecting her and you get satisfaction knowing that she is enjoying herself and feeling gorgeous. But she is your Queen, and you will not allow her to be mistreated in any way. L Sound familiar? It's quite popular and any woman whose husband feels like that is very lucky.

This is me and my husband. We enjoy MFM. Sometimes he just watches. Sometimes he isnt there and just hears about it. We dont enjoy cuckold fantasies..if we are ever approached online by someone describing themselves as a "bull", it's an instant block. 99% of the time bull means an egotistical nob that thinks he is an alpha. A true alpha doesnt need to declare it. Other people do it for him. He is so confident that he can allow his wife limitless freedoms knowing that she will always return to him. It takes a very confident man to pull this off and only makes me more attracted to my husband.

If you are going to do it, look for someone that is specifically looking for an mfm. Someone that wants YOU there. Not someone that just tolerates your presence so they can get sex they wouldnt otherwise be able to get.

We do lots of other things too with couples and girls we have got to know over the years but this remains probably the most intimate and erotic act we indulge in.

Enjoy x

This is a great post. Long may you continue to enjoy yourself together.

* "He will be used for a task then sent away.*"

I know you're new to the scene OP, so please take on board what you're reading here from seasoned swingers. If you treat single guys like meat, you won't be getting the prime rib, because prime guys know their worth, and it isn't to be used and discarded. You'll only find guys that have an "any hole will do" attitude, and that's hardly flattering to your wife. Right?

Oh come on, prime rib?!! This all sounds like some highly sophisticated hobby people get good at and need some real skill..

Let's not get carried away now - I know what I want and whoever is involved will know their place and the deal.

@ReadyforTakeOff

I think you have no idea about how things play out in real life in this situation vs reality of it. And I think you are up for disappointment if you think the world revolves around your fantasy.

I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship. Maybe your W is a puppet who ‘knows her place’ and will lie there to have the other puppet who ‘knows his place and will be used for his task’ go at it.
And maybe it’ll be what you are looking for.
As I said - I don’t know the dynamics of how your relationship operates.

But in a more likely scenario where your W’s experience also counts and she has a voice - she will hate to be there just to satisfy your needs and wants. Rather than also getting enjoyment out of it.

And as others said above - yes, it’s not difficult to go on any of the sites and find a man who’d put his penis into your W; move it in and out; come; get up and leave.

And this will be an extent of the experience for your W.
Is this what you are looking for?

I think the phrases that you're using are what's causing people to express concern OP. Nothing wrong with setting expectations that it is a ONS and just a hook up. Nothing wrong with him understanding his role in that. But when you talk about "used for the task" and "knowing his place", it makes it sound like a complete disregard for him as a human being.

It's just basic manners in the swinging community to be respectful and empathetic to people you fuck. I'm not saying you need to invite him out for dinner, but a conversation about expectations is always a good idea. I know a guy who met a couple for MFM and it all kicked off because the husband went to the toilet and returned to see my friend fucking his wife. You need to be clear about everyone's boundaries.

If you want him to make an effort and give your wife a good time, perhaps you ought to consider what you can do to ensure he has a good experience too.

I think the phrases that you're using are what's causing people to express concern OP. Nothing wrong with setting expectations that it is a ONS and just a hook up. Nothing wrong with him understanding his role in that. But when you talk about "used for the task" and "knowing his place", it makes it sound like a complete disregard for him as a human being.

It's just basic manners in the swinging community to be respectful and empathetic to people you fuck. I'm not saying you need to invite him out for dinner, but a conversation about expectations is always a good idea. I know a guy who met a couple for MFM and it all kicked off because the husband went to the toilet and returned to see my friend fucking his wife. You need to be clear about everyone's boundaries.

If you want him to make an effort and give your wife a good time, perhaps you ought to consider what you can do to ensure he has a good experience too.

I think the phrases that you're using are what's causing people to express concern OP. Nothing wrong with setting expectations that it is a ONS and just a hook up. Nothing wrong with him understanding his role in that. But when you talk about "used for the task" and "knowing his place", it makes it sound like a complete disregard for him as a human being.

It's just basic manners in the swinging community to be respectful and empathetic to people you fuck. I'm not saying you need to invite him out for dinner, but a conversation about expectations is always a good idea. I know a guy who met a couple for MFM and it all kicked off because the husband went to the toilet and returned to see my friend fucking his wife. You need to be clear about everyone's boundaries.

If you want him to make an effort and give your wife a good time, perhaps you ought to consider what you can do to ensure he has a good experience too.