Embarrassed - poo during sex

[Odiona]

So I’ve been having an issue lately. It’s been going on about 3months. I have a new partner - we have sex (vaginal) about twice a week and every other time we do I have a little “watery” leak from my bum (sorry to be that graphic). It is very embarrassing. I never had this problem before. I had a partner previously who loved anal so wondering if we did too much and it caused some kind of issue . Any help or advice appreciated.

Is it OK to make a comment as a man?
If you both are enjoying sex what is the problem? I know it is embarrassing but you say it has been going on for three months so it is clear to me that he is not bothered. He probably loves you to bits.

Any idea what the watery leak is? How are your bowel habits normally?

I'd be inclined to get checked out by your gp. It could just be a digestive or bowel issue or something more serious like a fistula.

@Paul72 I don’t think he is that bothered - I squirt a lot so we cover the bed before sex anyway ....and then put the waterproof pad in washing machine

@PinotPony when I said watery ...it’s still brown so like watery poo. My bowel movement was always bad, but never had this issue

It’s getting to the point I’m scared of letting go and orgasm to try to avoid the poo incident

It is very very very very unlikely that previous anal sex has caused this. It is odd though that it is only happening after PIV sex and with all medical issues you should consult a doctor for expert guidance.

It’s not normal so I’d be getting things checked out in case you have some kind of issues that require medical attention.

@thumpingrug

It is very very very very unlikely that previous anal sex has caused this. It is odd though that it is only happening after PIV sex and with all medical issues you should consult a doctor for expert guidance.

I have heard about this being an issue with gay men, so I’d imagine it would also be an issue for some women who enjoy anal sex. I’d would speak to your GP to see if they can help - I’m sure they would have come across this issue before.

I second Osiris, in that I have known a few gay men who have had this issue. One used to put a tampon in!

It's not normal and I would suggest you see a doctor or better yet go to a sexual health clinic.

Definitely warrants a trip to your GP. Hope you get it sorted op 🙂