So a few months ago (last year some time) I posted about my man never coming with me and me having to give him blow jobs only etc.
I had lots of good advice and thought I'd update in case it's any use to anyone -as I'm sure other women (and men) maybe in a similar place.
So suddenly my man came in me. Only took 15 mins or something!
We talked afterwards at length and he said he was very aware of it becoming an issue. Had completely stopped watching porn 3 months previously and had not masturbated for a couple of weeks.
It was then like something had switched on and we have been able to orgasm together ever since!
He does now masturbate (I assume, though we do have sex a few times a week) and we watch porn together sometimes but it makes no difference and we are both much happier!