Sex

[user1489870574]

Ladies wondering when you first start seeing somebody what's the longest you've gone not having sex? What's too long haha X

My first bf..we waited nearly 3 months but the first time was lovely...he took me away for the weekend and I'm forever grateful loosing my virginity was a lovely memorable experience....it's an advert for the first time being with an experienced guy.

Never been longer than a few days. I've always felt that if I found someone attractive enough to want sex with him, I should just go for it. In a long-term relationship now but I've never regretted the enjoyment and variety of my dating days :-) I was always careful though and insisted on a condom being worn.

4 months.

New man, been 6 months, due to bloody covid and living in different cities we are yet to do the deed. Under normal circumstances I would not have waited.

Husband and I slept together about three days before our "official" first date haha. We met in a pub and I fancied the pants off of him so DTD that night!

It's a function of trust levels developed. That's by around approximately 4th date @user1489870574

Thank you ladies still not sure when is a good time tho lol

It is moot right now due to lockdown but to be honest I have always been frightened of ending up getting stuck in a relationship with anyone I didn’t find sexually compatible from the off. So even if not on the first date then definitely by the third because if I didn’t fancy him at first it’s not going to get better is it?

I've always tended to wait a bit (not as much as my first time) as I wanted to be sure I wasn't a notch on the bedpost etc....nice to know they would stick around and it has served me well as I got a reputation for not being an easy pushover which suited me

Current relationship 2nd date. Wanted to on first date but decided to wait but couldn't wait longer than the second one. 2and a half years with my partner now.