Massage tips

[FuckedyDoo]

My partner absolutely loves giving me sexy massages - lots of oil, a really good, proper massage then eventually down to the business end for ages before shagging me. I love it and would love to do the same for him but I just wouldn’t know how to do it!

I’ve never given anyone a massage before, sexy or otherwise. I worry that because you generally massage the back I wouldn’t be able to get to him as obviously with men it’s all at the front

Sorry I feel so daft writing this but just wondering if any men out there could give me some tips? Or women if your partner enjoys this?

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Mine loves his bum checks and legs massaged, the harder the better.

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Do as a normal masseuse would do. Start on back, take time but obviously your hand can go further up, touch bum cheeks etc. Just practice massaging his back and first kneeling his muscles. I think most men like it fairly firm on their back.

Then turn him over and do normal massage but obviously you can get closer but taking ages...don't rush it.

Massaging his chest and nipples is something my DH likes but also legs and inner thighs. Important bit is touch and massage all around his cock and balls but don't actually touch there until he is pretty much begging for you to. Even then I don't massage but touch his balls very slightly.

Then move into the normal playing and sucking him. You will most likely know when you need to as my DH is usually hard and pre-cum visible so I know he is pretty aroused!

My DH loves it but you need the time and privacy and not being invaded by little ones

@FuckedyDoo sooooo envious !!

I give Tantric Massages to single ladies and ladies in couples. I learnt this skill at workshops I found on the Meetup app. See if there are any groups in your area you could join.

@GentlemanJay Brian, is that you?!?

Who?

It might be that this is one area where he enjoys the giving and you enjoy the receiving more than reversing the roles. We definitely have “Her Favourite” and “His Favourite” sessions. Certainly worth exploring and discussing though!

😂 Brian

Were the workshops in Hull??

I went on a weekend course on sports massage (not in Hull, and just normal massage). I had to get over massaging a bunch of strangers, but it was worth it.

@Blokenamechangesexboard I hurt my leg years ago and was referred for a sports massage, I swear the woman was trying to pull my leg off

@GentlemanJay

I give Tantric Massages to single ladies and ladies in couples. I learnt this skill at workshops I found on the Meetup app. See if there are any groups in your area you could join.

I volunteered as a model at a tantric massage workshop in London before covid. Once I got over the initial awkwardness of being touched by a guy I'd never met before, it was bloody amazing! He was a quick learner! 😂