Anyone consider themselves straight but get more turned on by women?

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Just that really! I do.
When I have sex with a man I think about women to get me off. Never men. Is it common?

I'd call it bi-curious. I dont want to worry you op but I've been with lots of women and started off like that

I think it can be normal. Whether you just think about women and whether you would have sex with one can be different.

I consider myself bisexual/pan sexual but have only ever been with men. I find naked female bodies far more sexually arousing though and would love to explore them more but I’m in a very long term married relationship so probably never will

I don’t regard myself as “straight” but there again, I don’t do labels. But, when I’m having sex with someone, I think about the person I’m with; not others. If l’m honest, l find the concept of thinking of others at such a passionate moment odd.

I am "straight" per-se, married but years ago pre marriage did have an experience with another woman....had never thought about it before she slipped into my room but was an incredibly erotic experience. Never repeated it but look back with fond memories and yes was turned on by her (she was clearly very experienced lol)

I consider myself straight and usually get turned on more by the male body. That said, I find females attractive in a softer, more sensual way. I've had sex with women in group settings but it's not something I'd do one on one. I've heard it described as "heteroflexible".

There's no "normal" or right / wrong about what you're attracted to or what gets you off. Go with it!

@Sexboardsafename

I consider myself bisexual/pan sexual but have only ever been with men. I find naked female bodies far more sexually arousing though and would love to explore them more but I’m in a very long term married relationship so probably never will

This!

@Namechanged1010 - Did l meet you in my distant past? 😉 🌈

@StarlightLady

Haha ...if you were good at seducing a women in their mid 20's. I stayed over at a friends house after a party and she had stayed as well...came wondering into my room! She was amazing at massage to start which definitely weakened me 😉 when things moved on

@Namechanged1010 - Hmmmmm! So, it was you! 😂 How are you doing? Pleased you had a nice time. 🌈 👩‍❤️‍👩

Yes, I'd say I am bi but have limited experience with women. There is another thread on here for a group that I am admin of for women who are bi or bi curious, very confidential.

You'll need an app called Wire, if you're interested drop me a PM.

@StarlightLady @Namechanged1010 don't keep us in suspense, tell us what happened

And yea, OP. I'm straight but get turned on by women a lot. I don't think I'd ever have the guts to do it unless one wanderer into my room.

@DuchessofHastings1

Frankly I don't think I would have ever tried it either. I suppose the circumstances, her confidence and just leading on everything a d relaxing me combined to make it happen. She certainly knew what to do lol

@StarlightLady would have to disclose the region she was in when it happened to convince me it was her lol

I was in the southern hemisphere at the time. But if she made a good job of it, it might have been me.

I thought l was heterosexual until my 30s when l was beautifully and deliciously seduced by another woman. There is a lot to be said for identical bodies.

These days l just regard myself as “Sexual”, no prefix required or wanted.

@StarlightLady

I like your description "deliciously seduced". It is a good description of my experience.

Well if you are same sex attracted you aren't straight.

@joystir59 what now?

What do you mean what now? Why are people so keen toclaim.thry are straight despite experiencing same sex sexual attractions? People who are 100% heterosexual do not experience sexual desire for their own sex.

I'm a lesbian, always was even before consciously knowing it in my late thirties. I always had romantic and sexual feelings for women. Even when I was married to a man and thought I was straight.

Oh yes, btw, being lesbian is normal. Lots of women are lesbians. It's as normal as being straight. It's also common to come out in your thirties forties fifties. After being married to men and raising children. If you experience sexual ambiguities and fantasise about having sex with a woman it means you are either bisexual or lesbian.

Well I can't imagine kissing a woman for some reason but I could def get turned on thinking about going down on her? And it may sound weird but for women I seem to have a 'type' which I do not have for men!!
I've never had romantic feelings for a woman either.

However the thought of having a threesome with my bf and a woman does sound appealing!!

I've been following this thread and I, like you, find the naked female form very attractive and chose "material" that features women over men but I consider myself straight not bisexual.
I did have the opportunity of a threesome with a couple and the fantasy was more appealing than the reality.

@itsureis really? So the reality didn't live up to the fantasy then?

I'm the same I woulld occasionally watch lesbian porn or a woman solo but never ever with men involved! However my bf turns me on loads in real life but I do sometimes go back to a lesbian image to get me over the edge of orgasm!