How wet is normal?

[Strawberry33]

I’m always a bit wet and very soon become a swimming pool.. most guys love it but I was wondering is it normal? I thought lube was only for anal because I had no idea not all women were like this x

Yes, it's normal. I've never had to use lube for PIV

I was recently described as a "veritable waterfall". 😂 Perfectly normal to be very wet when aroused.

Vaginal dryness can occur with menopause so some women do need lube.

I don't think it is unusual. I don't have a problem getting very moist when aroused, although wouldn't describe it as a swimming pool.

On the occasion I have done anal we have used lube to make it comfortable

I'm very wet too and my guy loves it !

There's a huge range, from floods to drips (to dry). Some men have preferences at either end -- in some cultures being v wet is seen as a negative. (sub-sahara)

May I say that it is perfectly normal to be really wet, while at the same time remarking that in my experience it is quite rare.

My partner was by far the wettest woman I had ever been with. She was in her mid-thirties when we got together and her natural lube was not only produced in copious quantities, but beautifully silky and smooth.

She is now post menopause and nowhere near as wet as she once was; indeed, lube is now required on most occasions. However, none of that matters at the end of the day. Some women will need lube, others do not, but it is all fine and part of the amazing variety of life.

I only get wet when I approach orgasm. Always have done. My DH finds it off putting and takes it personally, as even after lots of foreplay, he could only just insert a finger. The wettest I've ever got is probably how the inside of my mouth feels.

I didn't realise I was so dry until i started reading threads like this.

The funny thing is I don't even realise how wet I am , I feel weak but my partner will says 'you're absolutely soaking deep in there !'

Wet, not weak !

I have always been this way. Mines not even deep inside it’s all over. My first time I made out with my current partner he opened my legs and there was a wet patch on my leggings. He loved it though. Said its the sexiest thing he’s seen in a long time. But when I was younger I was so shy about it that I didn’t let anyone ever see and used to take cold and flu capsules to stop it because I’d heard that works.

@MrsTombliboo

I only get wet when I approach orgasm. Always have done. My DH finds it off putting and takes it personally, as even after lots of foreplay, he could only just insert a finger. The wettest I've ever got is probably how the inside of my mouth feels.

I didn't realise I was so dry until i started reading threads like this.

No I think you are normal Tombliboo! It’s why guys always remark on it with surprise when they get a wet one.

Absolutely agree and refreshing to hear from a man

I have always found it a turn on and tell DW frequently before during and after. My previous partners all varied from wet nearly all the time to a modest moist . Even then each one also was different depending on the time of the month, alcohol, general mood or location. If "swimming pool " is normal for the OP then long may she find happy divers.

I'm exactly the same. Get like that just kissing. My partner loves it as I'm sure most men do

I once soaked through my jeans!

I've not had any complaints though.

I get very wet, and so always have sex on a towel which has been folded over several times. That said, I am generally always a bit wet outside of sex as well (which is a hassle). I think it's just my default based on hormones. The only time I use lube is for anal.

Had to change the sheets a couple of times, if he's made me cum over and over, and I've completely flooded

@Strawberry33

My first time I made out with my current partner he opened my legs and there was a wet patch on my leggings.

I laughed at this. I thought about an occasion when I once had the real hots for someone at work.....wouldn't be able to have worn trousers then if I'd been like that😆

What is 'normal', eh? It's all good...

My DH alway comments that I'm very wet and he loves it.