Spicing things up

[justwannahavefun]

Any advice on spicing things up...whether it be films or TV series to watch to get us in the mood or things to try in the bedroom....we have done most things but want more...i love sexting but even that's not enough
HELP

We explored the garden recently which was fun. Have you tried different toys? Maybe browse Lovehoney for inspiration. I like to switch around a bit so sometimes slow and sensual, sometimes rough. Lunchtime quickies are fun but so are hour+ sessions taking our time to explore every inch.

We have done all that. Got loads of toys etc. We are not vanilla in the slightest lol. I just feel I want more but not sure what or where to go

Well if you have done most things then it a little difficult to suggest anything new..given we don't know what you have tried.

It sounds more like ince you have tried something then it isn't exciting to do it again...surely it's more about varying what you do to keep it fresh. But it is also about how you both express yourselves when doing things and what you say to each other

I just wanted to know what other things are out there. We use toys all the time they are my favourite but just feel like I need something different to get my motor running....more wanted to know what turns others on

What type of toys have you tried? There's so many out there you can't have tried them all! My current faves are Tracey's Dog, Doxy wand, Satisfyer Pro and Honey Birdette's Curva.

Then there's a whole load of butt toys you could try... plugs, tails, dildos...

Bondage? Sensory deprivation? Impact play? Role play?

Get browsing on LoveHoney for ideas!

OK you could try denial, so for a few days or longer one of you performs oral or manual or toys while the other sort of gets nothing?

Use your muscles to make the vagina tighten and losen, he clenches his buttocks in a way that makes him move but you don't move up or down. Seems to work best with woman on top.

Alternativly put on some hard music ie industrial roch hardcore electronic dance and get really animalistic.

Touch eachother up during the day as you are able, perform bits of foreplay on each other so by the time you are able you are both desperate to get down to it.

If you don't tell each other they look good or hot or so on, if nothinng else it makes them feel good and desired.