Pegging

[stereoboomer]

Hi

Just a quick question. In order to spice up your sex life has anyone tried pegging with their hubby? How did it go, who broached the subject, what equipment did you buy?

Thanks

If you want to know more about pegging, you just need to go to
www.peggingparadise.com

There are literally hundreds of podcasts to listen to, but for women who want to know more then I recommend starting with #112. It busts a lot of myths about the practice.

The wonderful woman who runs the site, Ruby Ryder, is now a Mumsnet member but has yet to serve her 90 days before posting on the sex board. She will be along soon to answer our questions and deliver her wisdom.

I can recommend this from lovehoney

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37266

The smaller size is great for beginners and the next one up is not too big either.

DW tested the water while we were playing one day, and it kind of evolved from there. I love it, and she assures me that she enjoys doing it as well.

Preparation is key, and we haven't had any unfortunate accidents so far.

When I first met DP he wanted to be pegged. Was worried about poo and pain, as most people are...

We bought a douche so he could clean himself, a strap on harness with different size O rings so we could insert different size dildos and some anal lube.

Then we went to a workshop and realised that there is more to it than just "go slowly"!
Learnt how to do external prostate massage using lubed up fingers and knuckles pushed (quite hard) against the perineum and moving in a figure of eight motion. Lots of fingering his arse but then stroking around and over his bum and thighs. Even used a little bullet vibrator on him to get him relaxed. NB. had a condom on it so I could keep hold and not lose it!!

Once he was relaxed I lay down and he straddled me so he was in control. He gradually got into it and really enjoyed himself. I loved being ridden! He didn't get hard and didn't cum but said the feeling on his prostate was amazing.

I'd avoid numbing lube (if it hurts you're not doing it right) and strapless strap ons (which require superhuman pelvic floor strength!)

Have fun!

That podcast is the most unerotic thing ever

Fucking a guys ass is really awesome, but you need to build up to it.

Start with either your tongue (I know this is a bridge too far for some, but shower together first and it's amazing!) or your lubed finger.

Be aware that people's bodies are arranged uniquely. You may not be able to reach his arse if he's on his back, or on his front. Experiment to find the best position for you. Use pillows!

The harness a PP linked is working great for me.

We've recently tried it. Bought smallest strapon available (beginners size) was a strange but nice feeling once get passed the feeling like you need a pee. Done it since and becomes more enjoyable. Don't think I'll go up a size though and definitely don't want one that resembles a dick, just a plane one for me.

@Anotherbloke1 Interesting that you felt the urge to pee. DP says this too and thought he was unusual so it's good to know he's not alone.
Does it get better with practice? DP still worries about this even if he's emptied his bladder first so we've resorted to using puppy pads just in case!

I get the urge to pee as well. I assume it must be the toy hitting the prostate/bladder? Ive not had an issue with it happening tho so far.

I’m going to be honest this is my ultimate fantasy. It’s not something that I’m ever going to get at home given my DW doesn’t even enjoy sex any more so guess it’s just going to have to stay a fantasy in my head

[quote PinotPony]@Anotherbloke1 Interesting that you felt the urge to pee. DP says this too and thought he was unusual so it's good to know he's not alone.
Does it get better with practice? DP still worries about this even if he's emptied his bladder first so we've resorted to using puppy pads just in case! [/quote]
Think it's normal. Yes it does get better the more you do it. I think the feeling sensation would turn into orgasm/ejaculation without been wanked at same time