Brother in law cheated with my best friend

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So... my friend was sleeping with my brother in law years ago. Since then he married and has kids with my sister in law whom I adore.

I've found out tonight that my friend has slept with my bro in law since he got married, since having kids...

Difficult in that i broke up with my husband two weeks ago so may no be my bro or sis in law. I'm so confused at my friend, my bro in law but ultimately my heart is breaking for my sister in law, i love her to bits and just cant help thinking my bro in law is a dog!!!

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Not sure if that post was actually clear?

I just mean i've left my husband and so my bro and sis in law aren't technically that anymore, so I don't know what to do, steer clear, dont get involved? I mean i have enough on my plate but my heart is breaking for my sis in law and their children x

By get involved do you mean telling her he's cheated? Or does she know already?

Yes telling her, or telling him? I just hate him, think he's such a dog!

I would want to know but there is a risk they think it is sour grapes? It may also poison the relationship (even more?) with your ex and you will no doubt have plenty of difficulties to get over sorting your divorce?

Very good point @Normalmumandwife

I also just think I can't really handle any more on plate right now so just going to have to leave it for now anyway?

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Admin, could this please be moved to Relationships?