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Sexting

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 25/08/2020 09:17

I know its wrong but i used to sext with a guy from work, he has now left and i feel lost. I LOVE my husband but i loved the excitement of the sexting and knowing that i could have someone if i wanted to...I DIDNT...it was just sexting no physical contact AT ALL
Didnt want that would just go home to my husband instead and have fantastic sex with him...i suppose in a way he benefited too LOL

Am i a bitch???? and how do i stop thinking about the sexting??

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noego · 25/08/2020 10:34

Sexting can be exciting and addictive. Just like any addiction you need to overcome it.

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 25/08/2020 10:46

well he has blocked me now from contacting him which i suppose says it all but it made me feel soooooo confident with myself, the first time in... well ever, maybe because everyone fancied him and it was me he was messaging, now i feel like poo
just wanted to feel like i was wanted i guess
I know my husband wants me im not saying that at all but i have never been chatted up in a pub or anything like that, no one night stands etc, maybe thats why it was good

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AnotherLanguage · 25/08/2020 11:48

knowing that i could have someone if i wanted to..

If your husband is aware and doesn't mind at all then I see no issues. On the other hand if he does not know then for me it is a betrayal of his trust.

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 25/08/2020 11:55

i know its a betrayal of his trust, i havent said its not, but if it turns me on and he in a way reaps the rewards from me being horny then is it doing any harm??
we have discussed swinging etc in the past so he is no prude either

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cantsaynotocake · 26/08/2020 17:51

Why don't you sext your HUSBAND? This is not okay. How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot?

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 26/08/2020 18:18

I do sext him too actually we have great fun...just being honest I enjoy it whether it's with my husband or not
Maybe I'm more open than others. If he was doing it but using me afterwards then great. Maybe I like to be used. Maybe I have more issues than I thought Confused

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Yeahiknow20 · 26/08/2020 18:47

I could have written this myself.
I have recently found myself in this situation and it has since mutually ended. But I'm shocked at the fact it came out of nowhere and now its over I struggle to not think about it.

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 26/08/2020 19:40

Finally someone who's knows what I mean

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Yeahiknow20 · 26/08/2020 19:54

I definitely do. Not proud of myself but felt alive for the first time in a long time.

mellowww · 26/08/2020 22:30

The thing that feels uncomfortable to me is that you were blocked. Why?

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 27/08/2020 06:32

@Yeahiknow20

I definitely do. Not proud of myself but felt alive for the first time in a long time.
That all I meant...its all fantasy....never to act on
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iknowiknowimab1tch · 27/08/2020 06:36

@mellowww

The thing that feels uncomfortable to me is that you were blocked. Why?
I think it's more to do with the fact I still work there. He left on very bad terms with the boss but I get on well with the boss so maybe he thinks I'm spying or something...we did have normal conversations too
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noego · 27/08/2020 09:55

I have a few sext buddy's, It's not a constant thing either. It may be a couple of weeks without contact and then one day my phone will ping and there will be a message "horny?" and then the next few hours are great fun :)

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iknowiknowimab1tch · 27/08/2020 10:13

@noego

I have a few sext buddy's, It's not a constant thing either. It may be a couple of weeks without contact and then one day my phone will ping and there will be a message "horny?" and then the next few hours are great fun :)
thats the bit i like, the anticipation of it all
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Louise000000 · 30/08/2020 09:23

I totally understand what you are going through, however just be careful because your brain naturally gets used to one turn on thing and wants more and this is when physical affairs can happen. If this is something you could consider you have to look and see what's missing in your marriage, is my advice. Can you and dh try some new things in bed to spice things up maybe? You could try and capture that excitement with him to see if its just a thrill you are after or if it's the attention of another man that's more appealing

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5pForAPlasticBag · 04/09/2020 16:53

“ if it turns me on and he in a way reaps the rewards from me being horny then is it doing any harm??”

Show your husband the texts and you’ll get your answer. Simples.

Heischeatingisnthe · 04/09/2020 19:26

How long did you know this person and why has he blocked you? Why don’t you feel guilty to your husband? Surely you wanted it to go somewhere

Iloveme30 · 05/09/2020 09:15

@iknowiknowimab1tch

I do sext him too actually we have great fun...just being honest I enjoy it whether it's with my husband or not Maybe I'm more open than others. If he was doing it but using me afterwards then great. Maybe I like to be used. Maybe I have more issues than I thought Confused
😂😂😂 brilliant
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