Prostate orgasms

[Ggrtthb]

NC, but regular user.

DH enjoys a bit of anal play, and I find it really arousing to stick stuff up his bum so to speak. Recently we've bought one of those special prostate toys, to see whether DH could climax from anal stimulation alone, or even at all.

So far we've tried it twice without any luck. I know that not everyone can do this, but I wondered whether anyone on here had experience and if it is something that might take some practice. It took me some practice to be able to have a vaginal orgasm and I can only do it with a vibrator, so is it the same for men? Is there hope yet? I would just really enjoy watching it happen, sorry if tmi.

I can thoroughly recommend this website:

www.peggingparadise.com

Although the main focus is about being pegged, there is an amazing amount of information on prostate play. There are the best part of 300 hour-long podcasts to listen to, for example.

Some men get off on the prostate being gently stimulated, others want some real pressure. Basically, I am saying that the pair of you are on a voyage of discovery and what works for one man does nothing for another.

We are also curious about this sort of thing and following. I've tried it very gently twice, once he said really worked as I must have found the right spot and the second not so much. Any tips would be appreciated.

We do pegging sometimes. Mainly stimulation of that area (any part of it) heightens normal pleasure for him, but then we've never tried targeting the prostate with any conviction. DH couldn't give two fucks about a prostate orgasm (as in he is not bothered either way), so this is more my fantasy. Of course he wouldn't mind it happening.

DW and I have tried a few things, including prostate stimulators and various butt plugs.

I can’t say that any have made me cum by themselves, it’s normally a combination of things, such as a handjob or bj at the same time.

The vibrating prostate stimulator came from love honey and, whilst it feels good, I can’t say I’ve ever had that ‘wow’ moment when the prostate is directly stimulated. A good reason to keep practising, really

This thread (and our subsequent online reading of the benefits of prostate massage) has inspired my DP to set aside some time - soon - to indulge in some anal prostate play! We're both looking forward to it with anticipation.

@Angelsman That's great! Please report back if you feel up to it. We haven't yet tried again, but sometime soon hopefully.

It's easier with a finger, but not every man wants your finger in his bum.

Care, lube and a very short fingernail!

We've tried with my fingers and spent lots of money on specific prostate dildos. My DP says that the finger is best but my fingers are too short! By millimetres! I'm following as it would be really nice for him to enjoy it.
He does just start leaking while having his prostate stimulated, but when he's wanked at the same time and cums he says it isn't as good. Like it's muted.

Watching with interest.

Well - an update. We had fun. My DP masturbated me while inserting a small butt vibrator. Obviously this was very nice for me - a true double sensation. Stimulating although a bit sensitive. More practice coming up!
My DP tells me it was rather nice sensation for her to be taking control of my pleasure. Certainly, DP did have a pretty wicked look on her face!