Orgasm issues

[Premmy]

Im 34, have orgasmed alone and ONCE with a bf, through oral.

Ive never been able to orgasm vaginally through g spot, only ever clitoris orgasms.

Bf ive been with about a year and a half ive never faked it and ive told him i find it hard to orgasm but still enjoy it.

So theres 2/3 q's really

• Is anyone in the same boat? Or got any tips?
• Is a g spot orgasm even possible

Have a read of Rachel Swift's books.

Consider getting a vibrator - you can use it with him.

It's possible, but most find you also need to be mega turned on to start with or combine it with clitoral stimulation or both.

If you can come via oral, given dedication and the willingness to follow your guidance with a BF, do you need to come via g-spot?

G spot orgasm is most definitely possibly but for me it requires a good size and certain positions.

Some people Go to work by train, others by car. They all get to work, the means of getting there is not important. No, I’m not on the wrong thread.

You can orgasm, through oral, so request lots.

You can orgasm by yourself, so go for it with him holding you.

Don’t worry about the road to climax, just enjoy.

Yes, g spot orgasms very possible but especially at first you need to work up to it.

G spot (well g region since it can cover a big area) can feel like nothing at all until you’ve already had several orgasms. The first few times I had one were after a lot of previous orgasms and then suddenly it all worked. Now I can have g spot orgasms with less prior arousal but that’s probably because DH knows exactly what works.

Might be best to experiment alone at first - get a g spot vibrator if you can (or glass dildo) and have a few clitoral orgasms first then go exploring. For me it’s front and back wall, quite deep inside, for others it’s just the front / at a shallower depth.