No bulge = tiny?

[ShineOn7]

I often think back to a guy i saw for a while years ago. He was a great kisser and made comments about how he loves giving oral but sort of brushed off receiving oral when i made a comment back.

This is cringey, sorry but whenever we kissed passionately 🤮 i could never see or feel a boner. I saw him in different trousers, trackies.. but i could never see anything there at all.

For various reasons, we didn't have sex and I never saw 'it'.

My question is, do you think it sounds like he has a micro penis? He is definitely a male.

For what it's worth, i quite liked him and would not have dumped him if he did have a micro penis. Just curious really.

No - he could be a 'grower' rather than a 'show-er'! You can't guess about his size without seeing it properly.

Thank you for replying. If he's a grower then all our make out sessions didn't get him turned on?! I thought it's normal for guys to get turned on during this.

Op,
It depends. Every man is different, just as every woman is.

Passionate kissing may not have been enough for him. TMI, but it works for me!

I assume you never, er, groped?

I'm no expert, but I'd say that it's very unusual for a guy to be so offhand about receiving oral - it took me many many years to find a woman prepared to give oral. Needless to say, I didn't brush off the suggestion!

I’m thinking it was probably small.

Every man Iv kissed Iv felt his boner through his jeans/pressed up against me.

To be honest if passionate kissing me wasn’t a turn on enough then I probably wouldn’t bother anyway.

Average guy no I never groped i got the impression that he liked kissing me as he kept going for seconds

Yeah i was expecting him to say yeah i love that it would be amazing but no!

Bluebel yes exactly! I felt no boner, never seen any outline.

How do you know he was definitely male?

Maybe a good job it never went all the way🤪

Pants make a big difference.

My boyfriend wears boxers (but fitted ones), bulge very obvious. I wear pants, bulge definitely not visible. Admittedly his is bigger than mine, but mine isn’t small.

Greekoddess he has a biological child with a woman, his body doesn't look like a transman. His hands were manly and bigger than mine.i saw his childhood photos and he was a boy then. His birth name was a male name. Usually transmen have narrower shoulders, wider hips, hands smallish for a man, face sort of feminine.. i didnt see any of that.

Bluebell hah!

Simon i saw him in jeans, chinos, tracksuit bottoms... it looked completely flat like there is nothing.

I guess the consensus either small or a grower.. 😂

Well if he has a child it definitely works!

Can't believe you've been ogling that area so intently. Wonder if it was obvious to him 😂😂😂

Greek yes he noticed!! I burst out laughing it was so awkward. He looked down to see why i was staring 😂
It was only because every guy i have kissed that way got hard and it was obvious but not this guy. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I would be suspicious if after a heavy kissing session there was no change in the trouser department. Could he be diabetic or have some other condition that affects erections? If none of these and you did not grope to find out I would suspect the person is not what they seem to be

I'm with BlueBellForest ...id certainly be starting to firm up if i were engaged in an intimate song with my GF.I'm quite athletic also and i think that would make it more obvious as our bodies would likely be closer. (no beer gut or similar!). I think the underwear matters a lot too. Boxers would likely be more obvious visually. I tend to wear briefs as i like everything to be safely gathered in as im not..err..small.