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Browtox · 05/06/2020 06:56

Has anyone ever been in an anonymous findom relationship without having to offer anything in return.
Bloke tried to get me to. I’m like - no way .. but intrigued it must happen

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B1rdflyinghigh · 05/06/2020 13:42

I don't quite see the point for him if there's not an expectation to receive.

Rocaille · 05/06/2020 20:28

Findom is clearly quite serious abuse of people who are very likely mentally ill. I also worry for the wives and children of these men.

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Browtox · 05/06/2020 23:12

If they have them

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Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 00:13

I thought it was one dominant person requiring the other to pay him/her money for the 'privilege' of paying them?

Although the definition online suggests the paying party gets a kick out of being financially humiliated, I have actually (although I'd never heard of findom!) seen an absolute psycho try to demand financial slavery from a vulnerable person, and it was the psycho who got the kick out of that power.

Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 00:14

It's not just a dominant female getting money from a man. It can be a dominant male getting it from a female.

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Browtox · 06/06/2020 10:01

I dunno but this was a guy. It turns them on apparently “to serve”. Weird -but that’s sex for you.

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Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 13:01

Well I knew a guy who was turned on by making women serve. I thought he was very weird/scary/destructive but I didn't know there was a special category for him! He kind of ruined my already ruined life, too. So I of course, not being the least turned on by giving someone cash I didn't have, pacified him as was scared of him (another complex, I know!!!!!). Because I was in a highly abusifs and dangerous relationship and trying to get out of it, and this guy posed as a friend/confidant and then started asking to 'borrow' money.

Anyhow it's all fucking stupid and how anyone could like any of it beats me.

Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 13:03

Ha actually I have a poetically just solution for your guy who wants to pay - let him give it to me, cos I'm seriously out of pocket from getting fucked over!!!!! 😅

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Browtox · 06/06/2020 15:28

Ha! I toyed with it (not very seriously because - Jesus ). But he might be a Lunatic

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Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 23:51

Of course, he's a raving lunatic. Better leave him to me with his desperation to donation millions 😀👌

Unpeufatiguee · 06/06/2020 23:51

To donate!!

(I'm such a worthy cause ☺️)

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