Erection Problems

[BE2BN2BE]

Hi all,
I’ve been with my DP for about a year. We have a very healthy sex life and neither is us have any big health problems. My problem is that at least twice a week sometimes more he finds it hard to maintain an erection. We start off fine, it’s not lack of interest, if happens in different positions. This weekend we tried to have sex at least five times at different points and every single time after a period (sometimes 15 mins sometimes 5 mins) he loses his erection.
We are both in our late 30’s and I am his first serious relationship- he’s dated etc but very career driven. He seems to think it’s because he’s not used to having so much sex...
I’m trying desperately to not take it personally and think of myself as some hag. But. It’s starting to get me down. Anyone else been here? X

The penis isn’t a machine, it is fallible and for many reasons, physical and mental. I was similar, but when older, able to get erections no problem, but sometimes I would droop during foreplay. Usually DW could bring it back to life but not quite rigid enough for PIV so she would give me hand or oral. Could be things like diet, alcohol, weight, fitness, Or tiredness. In my case It was an enlarged prostate . The worst thing is that after a physical failure next time you are intimate it plays on your mind so becomes a mental issue which makes it worse.

(PS someone will post blaming it on too much porn and “Death grip”).

If he has any male blood relatives with prostate Issues, he needs to get checked out.

Thank you. I want to be as supportive as I can be with him.

Something to try is going for PIV as early as possible, then go for your pleasure/orgasm and hopefully he may get a second erection with no pressure to perform