Sub space

[Purplepussycat]

Does anyone have a d/s relationship in real life. Been reading loads of books and think subspace sounds amazing but does it actually happen in real life?

Yes, it does.

Yes. It's something that you and your partner can learn to achieve together. There's some great BDSM workshops out there.

Worth mentioning that subs in subspace can become detached from reality and lose boundaries. A bit like being drunk. For example a sub who had put anal as a hard limit might well be begging for it during subspace. Needs a Dom(me) strong enough to say "No, not now, lets revisit that later".

Thanks for replying. It’s definitely something I want to look into more.