FWB lost his erection

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I’m not sure I’m posting, to get it off my chest perhaps because I don’t have anyone to tell IRL.
I have a FWB, we’ve been meeting up once a week for no strings sex, it’s always been really good for us both.
Last night we started, plenty of foreplay as usual.
I went down on him, he didn’t cum but almost as soon as I stopped he lost his erection with no sign of it returning.
Honestly it made me feel like shit! Like he didn’t find me attractive and just didn’t want to have sex with me.
Would it be awful for me to not see him again because of this? We aren’t in a relationship so it’s purely a sexual thing.

Man here.

A penis does not work like that. An erection does not necessarily mean he fancies you and a lack of one doesn't mean he doesn't.

When I was younger in my 20s I had a FWB. There was one night I remember where we were getting down to it, had LOTS of foreplay with me being hard as a hammer. When we started the PIV he just went like a rope. No amount of coaxing, manual stimulation or preying to the God of Lust resolved it. Of course, when it became obvious I was having a boner issue it made it 10 times worse as all I could think of was the lack of wood.

She was very understanding, supportive and didn't make an issue of it.

Hi @TobyHouseMan thanks for a
Mans perspective.
I’m not an unkind person, I was supportive, and made no issue of it at the time. He was mortified I could see that.

my partner has a lot of problems re this due to his diabetes its just one of those things you just have to accept sometimes it goes well sometimes it doesnt

No different than a women not being wet on occasion.

Meh, it happens. My boyfriend is the hottest and kindest man on the planet, I genuinely couldn’t fancy him anymore than I do, but sometimes my penis just says “nah, not tonight”.