I'm happily single and not currently looking for a relationship. Had a short term FWB arrangement which sort of arose by accident but that's over now. To be blunt I haven't had proper sex in about 3 years and I'm incredibly frustrated. I have a dildo but didn't find it satisfying. FWB would seem to be the way to go but all my male friends are attached and/or live abroad. I can't exactly go on match.com and say I just want sex, so I'm wondering how to go about meeting someone. I live in a quiet Irish village and although I have a social life you don't really meet anyone I'd consider. Alternatively maybe I need to explore the vibrator option. I've heard there is some very good stuff on the market now