To wear to a swingers club?

[Kearaleigh123]

Going to a swingers club is something me and DH have discussed for a good 2 years and on Friday afternoon where finally taking the plunge (only time we have child care).

How ever I'm very very insecure of my stomach and will do anything to keep it covered! What generally do you wear? Any advice for these places??

As little as possible

What about a corset? Or babydoll type lingerie that will cover your stomach?

I'm totally jealous. DH is too insecure about his body to take me x

Police dress that covers the stomach but not much else?
Nurse dress
Corset type stuff
You'll be fine! It's the confidence that matters. ( helps... )

Usually just a towel and a smile, especially if i know that the club has a hot tub! If not, then a corset, panties and stockings/suspenders.

I'm a big lass, and i wear what I'm comfortable in. You'll see all shapes and sizes and honestly adter the initial 'woah, naked people!' Shock, you'll not be bothered. I always try to paint a smile on and fake it til I make it if I'm feeling nervous.

Hope you have a great time!

So,is what you wear that important when you go to a Swinging club session. I guess that ladies will wan't to look sexy,as is quite normal for sexual meet ups, and would make a woman feel good, more confident , as is usually the norm.

If you are swinging with your Husband,maybe he can advise you on what you look super good wearing, and hope he is looking good as well ha ha.

I have worn skimpier outfits as well as just towels. What I found was there were much bigger people around and everyone was relaxed and happy with themselves. You'll have a great time.

Where are all these clubs?! Are there any in London? Can you go as a single person?

Wear what makes you feel confident and comfortable with a little element of pzazz.

Face it , hopefully it will end up crumpled in the corner on the floor.

@BoringUserName00

1. Everywhere
2. Yes
3. Yes (though most have restrictions on single men)

@BoringUserName00 AbFab hold great parties, they are bases near Heathrow. Rios Kentish Farm is open minded, you can go as a single person. Couples only after 6pm Saturday. On Friday, lots of single men there but limited numbers of women but some women are open to having casual sex with strangers. Any unwanted attention and you get thrown out.

@BoringUserName00 - have a look on Fabswingers, they have a section on clubs in different areas. Youll find plenty on there.

Thank you! Sorry OP, not intended to hijack your post x

Im intrigued to know this. People seem tonsay "all shapes and sizes" but my experience of people saying that usually means "women aged 25-50,size 12-16".
Are there larger older women there? Im a 24? C section overhang and mahoosive boobs. Are there really women like me there?!

@HamptonThought most i saw were 16+ sizewise, both men and women had big bellies. There were a few couples in slightly better shape but a bit haggard if you know what I mean/Sun worshippers.

@HamptonThought - I'm an odd shape. 24 on top 18/20 on bottom. Mahooooooosive boobs.

I can't say I focused too much on everyone's size and shape. I was too busy having fun.

@LookAtWhatYouCouldHaveWon

I'm intrigued about swingers clubs too but I suppose everybody's experience will be different.
I love that you're going in the afternoon - all I have to look forward to tomorrow is the supermarket and school pickup ;-)
I hope you have an amazing time - be sure to keep us posted xx

I’d love to go to one and I’d wear whatever I felt my most sexiest and comfortable with for my first time. It would probably be a plunging corset outfit over a short leather skirt until I felt like I was way overdressed

Hope you're having fun OP! x

Do let us know how you enjoyed OP!

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