A common theme on this board is low female sexual desire. For those women who find this distressing, you might be interested in taking part in a study - details below.
I am in no way associated with this study and I’m not suggesting women who don’t find their desire levels upsetting or problematic undertake this to please their men-folk, but many come on this board looking for answers from (in the main) unqualified and (mostly) well meaning amateurs. Possibly speaking to specialists researchers in this area may offer some the first step in providing the answers they seek. Some may find speaking to a researcher a little easier than speaking to a therapist on such a personal issue.
Best of luck.
imperial.crf.nihr.ac.uk/studies/role-melanocortin-4-receptor-hyposexual-desire-disorder/