First orgasm at 45

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Just wanted to put this out there for others in my position in case it’s helpful.

I had my first orgasm two days ago. I was looking into buying a vibrator and got onto YouTube reviews, then searched for videos on how to orgasm. I found a series by Mr V which is an audio track that talks you through relaxation and fantasising about sex. Good grief. I had to get out of my own head first and just go with it, but it was worth it!
Soooo good.
I don’t think I’ve ever taken time to learn how to pleasure myself, so I’m not one of those who’ve ‘tried everything and nothing’s worked’. I’ve also never got into a position where I’ve been able to relax enough with a partner, and my partners have been very few.
So, I’m not claiming this audio will work for everyone, but it’s working for me!
Now just need to take that relaxation and anticipation into bed with DH.

Wow, that's amazing. I'm in a similar place although I have had orgasms - they have been very few and far between. I'm going to take a look!! Thanks for sharing!!

Ah ohwhattodowithmylife hope it goes well! Even if he’s not your type, you could try another. I’m thinking, for me, audio is the way to go! Must train DH

Noego, thanks for the cake!

Here's a tip for you.

When using the vibrator, place it on the soft spongy area just below the clitoris and not directly onto the clit. Lie back relax and enjoy.

You're welcome

Marvellous. I'd learned to orgasm solo, but had my first orgasm where someone else did the honours aged 49. Feels like such an achievement!

What did they do temporarypermanent? Please share any tips???