Squirting- a mans perspective please?

[OldSpeclkledHen]

Oh yikes, can't believe I'm gonna type this but ...

Sometimes during sex, I squirt 😳😳 I have no prediction or control of it.

One of my ex's loved it.

Another of my ex's didn't 😳😳 he thought I'd weed on him 😳😳🙈🙈

Got a new man now, fun fun fun is on the cards 🤪 but what if it happens and he doesn't like it? I'm still mortified by the ex who thought I'd weed on him 😳🙈😳🙈 and I like this new guy a lot...

Not sure if I should warn him it can happen? Or just laugh it off if it does happen - but not sure I could handle him thinking I'd wet myself 😳

I know I'm probably overthinking this but ... ffs

Men of MN - (and ladies too!) - why are your thoughts?

I absolutely love it if a woman squirts! I find it a big turn on. Also, you can’t fake that, so it’s a real fail safe indication that she’s enjoying what I’m doing🙂
Sorry to hear about the negative experience with the other chap. If they can’t cope with anything that may come from there then they really shouldn’t be in there imho🤔😂.
Hope things go well with your new partner.

I’m not a man, not do I squirt but I can get quite wet. I would just mention in passing, just before knix off, that you can get very wet and leave it there.

Any further detail is not necessary and you don’t want him to think there’s something wrong if you don’t squirt. There are so many male insecurities.

Have a lovely time !

Wouldn't really mention it but to stop you worrying you could put a towel down and say you sometimes squirt then he knows

I don't understand. What exactly is squirting? I've never done it. Is it urine or something else?

In my single years I only met one squirter and one oozer and both times I was surprised but delighted that I was able to bring such pleasure so quickly in our encounters. Neither of them warned me in advance and I assumed it was squirting and not peeing. (Can women pee when in the throes of orgasm? Men can’t or, at least I can’t/don’t) but if it’s fairly copious then perhaps a warning would be good.

I'd tell him in advance. If he hasn't experienced it before it might cause the moment to lost.

I squirt alot!! I need to have a towel to hand or sheets would be soaked 🤭 DH absolutely loves it and now isn't happy until I do squirt. It is definitely an orgasm although I joke that I've pee'd myself again. Definitely doesn't smell like pee. I think It's pretty rare and I've only done it in recent years. DH knows exactly how to make it happen. I think from talking to him that most men find it a huge turn on. Never happened for me with previous partners so not sure. I think prewarn that it sometimes happens but try not to put pressure on him if that's possible!

In hookup culture (where I play at the moment) it's a huge turn on and men are desperate to make women squirt. I think your horrified ex was unusual. Sure a bit of a warning is no harm but as a sexy 'turn me on enough and I squirt' chat.

I LOVE it!!!

Just warn him that sometimes you may squirt (it's a massive turn on for us guys).if you do squirt with him then make sure you compliment him on bringing you off it will be a big boost knowing he hit the right spots.

@Newman2018 thanks! Yes, you are correct about he shouldn't be in there if he can't handle it 😳 why do we always remember the negative- never the positive!

@StarlightLady thanks! That's a good idea! I'll do that!

Thanks everyone else for helping put my mind at rest too 😉😉

I’ve never slept a woman who squirts. I am pretty sure It wouldn't be a turn off though

The first time it happened as I was giving her oral I wondered what had happened. It was a great experience and I did swallow it.
It is a real turn on for me

I squirt a lot and have no control over it. My partner loves it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Has happened once to me as the giver. Lady seemed to want more and more by way of fingers until it happened. Definitely didnt seem like pee either in viscosity or smell..... well, theres a romatic statement for you isnt it?

I’m squirter too. When I was younger it was a bloody flood and I was not really worldly enough to know what it was. Nowadays it can sometimes happen but not always. The men I’ve discussed it with have all absolutely loved the idea of it... whether they’ve experienced with their previous partners or not. If someone was “ ewwww” about it I wouldn’t sleep with them quite frankly. I would mention it to your partner... and I would say the word squirt too because he’ll undoubtedly know then what you’re referring to. “ I hope you don’t mind but I have been known to squirt from time to time. “ If he’s like any of the guys I’ve known they’ve all wanted to experience it from very close range if you catch my drift.

I've never been with someone who did it but I'd find it pretty hot. Don't be embarrassed OP, embrace it!

Im female and squirt a lot too...my dh loves it and wont cum himself until he has made me squirt....oddly its only just started happening to me and im 45.

As a bloke I'd love it.

It's a sign of success.

Use the term cum instead of squirt