Gosh, I sound like a pervert.
Essentially been feeling really in the mood recently, DH is both surprised but willing to keep up!
I wouldn't say we're super adventurous, we have a few favourite positions (I am overweight which does rule out certain positions and acts).
He likes playing with my bum, butt plugs and fingers to feature heavily and if done right I do enjoy. We have tried full on anal but I didn't enjoy that so haven't done it again since.
I have a fantasy of him being more spontaneous/passionate/aggressive, but he worries about me too much that he's not really willing to do it. I'm not a fan of gagging or hair pulling which is his examples for why he doesn't think I'll enjoy it being rougher.
We do a lot of foreplay on both sides with both hands and oral.
We use toys on me regularly including him using them or him watching me use them.
My other fantasy (him "picking me up" as a stranger to show that he would still choose me) isn't possible as we can't get a babysitter for our 4mo and 2yo in order to have a shag.
Nothing involving another person as I'm jealous and I know I couldn't handle it, which is the same reason I dont want to watch porn as a couple.
I'm insecure about my body which puts making our own porn a bad idea because I reckon if I see my body naked and writhing around I'll probably die of shame.
Then, I've kind of ran out of ideas as to what to try next. He says I've fulfilled his fantasies and theres not much else he wants to try, but I'm wondering if theres just something we haven't thought about.
So, is there anything other people really enjoy that's a bit different to the normal sexy checklist?
I want to push the boundaries a little bit but everything above is all pretty normal for us so I'm not sure which step to take next.