How to 'take the lead' advice needed!

[Justanamechange1]

Hi all
Ive been with bf for month or so, sex is great although I remain very confident in that area having come out of a sexless marriage. Bf is aware of this. Last night he said im hard to read & he can't tell if i want sex or not, he wants me to take the lead. I literally have no idea how to do this!! Help!!

That should say very unconfident in this area 🤦‍♀️

Subtle version: Take a deep breath and simply say would you like to come to bed.

Unsubtle version: This only works if you have a skirt or dress on. Take your knickers off and throw them at him. They usually get the hint.

🤣🤣 love the unsubtle version!! He says he needs a sign 🤷‍♀️

The first question is if you can tell whether you want it or not? it's a serious question, for many many years I didn't even recognise signs I was horny or aroused.

Hi that is a good question ... you may be on to something there. Thinking about it I don't always recognise when I'm aroused. So how would he? Poor man