Does anyone else find doggy style too painful?

[NewMe2019]

DP and I have tried it a few times but it just hurts so we stop. It's frustrating as I don't dislike it but don't like the pain. I did some research and found laying on your front with a pillow under pelvis can work, and it did (and was great) but I'd still like to be able to do it normal doggy style.

I'm definitely turned on enough etc. It just feels like he's hitting something.

Are you inverted? Your cervix I mean? I am...it's quite common but means some positions are difficult.

Also have you tried adjusting your hips? You just need to lower them a bit sometimes. Don't stick your arse right in the air...tuck your pelvis under a bit.

I don't find it painful, the contrary. However, what it does mean is that your DP can go deeper inside you so if he is a good size he might be touching parts inside that you are not used to etc?

I did discover at my last smear that I am tilted inside, I'd never been told that before so never knew. Apparently I'm also tilted the opposite way to how women are usually tilted so maybe that is it.

I will try adjusting my hips. It's been ok from behind when I've been more upright.

Have you tried at different points in your cycle? Your cervix will be lower at ovulation and just before a period so avoid those times.
Also try it standing up or with your thighs together so it's not as deep.

Thanks for the tips. Will give them a try.

I do recall a nurse friend of mine saying that those with a tilted cervix were betting doing from behind when TTC. Can't vouch for it though!

Oh god, no TTC here! 😆

Used to like it but since last child it's exactly as you describe.

Try backing on and taking control of the movement.

Depends on the fit involved - very large is a bit of an ouch.

I find it painful sometimes aswell, but only with my dp. I wondered if it was the shape of his penis at that angle, as I've never felt discomfort in that position before, its always been one of my favorites!

Personally I love it but similar to yourself it can hurt my wife....so with that in mind I nipped into Ann Summers the other day and bought two cock rings, not to keep me up but to act a bit like a buoy...the idea being it stops me pushing too deep...worth a try?

When I'm at certain points in my menstrual cycle (around ovulation basically) I've found it painful with guys who have longer than average cocks, as I have a low cervix.

Suffer the same op! I find as long as I'm good and ready, I have no problem the week after my period, otherwise I sort of hunch over a pike of pillows with my pelvis tucked in a little (not exactly as sexy but i have a very understanding dp 😂)