Slipping out.. Argh!!

[OhWhatAPalaver]

I just want to check I'm not the only person this happens to. Sometimes while me and my dp are having sex, he slips out of my vagina and his penis thrusts against my clitoris/urethra. This really hurts a lot. It feels like a small tear or cut or something. It doesn't happen too often but it did today and I just want to make sure I'm not unusual in experiencing pain when this happens.

Are you properly wet during sex? It should hurt that much unless you're very dry.

Yeah, was fine before he slipped out and bashed against it. I'm wondering if I have a larger than usual clitoral hood or something. Who knows. It bloody stings though!

Have you experienced this with other people? It sound like he is too much in battering ram mode!

Yes when mrs has been on top, but its more like being punched or kicked very hard for both of us and yes it Fing hurts enough to bring tears to the eyes.

Yeah it's not just this partner. Normally I'm wary of it happening and can spot when it might happen and avoid it but I let my guard down today!
And yes it definitely does bring tears to the eyes.

DH once slipped and thrust without realising..... I split where I'd had stitches with my episiotomy (sp), bled all over and stung like a twat for days

How hard is he banging away?

I think it happens to us all occasionally but my husband makes sure he puts it back in. Doesn't just thrust and hope for the best and risk hurting one of us.

Although they're both quite soft, wet parts so I can't see it hurting that much. Probably him more than me. Which makes me wonder if your sec is really rough or what?

Yeah he was going quite fast but not rough. It was a long session and he didn't realise it'd come out. He actually tore the fold of skin above my clit/urethra slightly. It's getting better now but still a bit twingey.

I experienced this for the first time yesterday. He banged against me before but it has never hurt. This was really painful. I now totally get what you mean.

Maybe there is a link to penis size? I guess a shorter one is more likely to slip out. Even so ,a man knows how deeply inserted he is. Im not a big fan of jack hammer mode as it can result in a loss of control. Cant say i pop out though.

Possible. He said he was a bit numb as he'd already come twice and he got a bit carried away!

Not sure why you're referring to the hood of your clit/urethra like that. They are not covered by the same hood and are not next to each other.

It does hurt if it's mid thrust and rams into you. Sometimes it just slides if you're being gentle and it's quite nice.