How do you approach this?

[factcheck]

Hi,

If you're starting a new relationship and you're on the pill already, how do you ladies broach the subject of STI's etc before deciding not to use condoms? Do you ask?

Help! Very new to this.

You use condoms every time. If the relationship looks like it's working out you both go and get tested.

As above: use condoms, have the exclusivity talk, and then both get tested.

www.tht.org.uk/our-services/phone-and-post

Just say it... both get tested and there you go

You insist on condoms until you’re tested. You’ll get tested in record time as I’ve never met a man yet who likes wearing a condom!