Height differences

[Gamorasgran]

First post on this board and have nc as I'm not great with not outing myself!

DH and I are really going through a purple patch at the moment which is immense. Whether it's being mid 40s, kids getting older or what but all of a sudden we've perked right up.

Position wise we've stuck to the same old reliables for years, mostly variations on doggy and him on top. Partly this is because me on top always felt a bit cumbersome and I wasn't fit enough to move as we both wanted. Mostly though this is because he's over a foot taller than me and getting something we can relax into and not sprain something is tricky.

Any ideas of something a bit different that may work? Am going to clamber up again now I'm fitter (and more up for it) but any suggestions gratefully received.

My partner and I have the same difference between us, and it isn't an issue. We do like it when I sit on a chair and she either sits astride me, facing towards me, or turns around the other way. Facing towards allows lots of kissing, face to face, and hugging.

We also have a sex swing suspended from a sturdy ceiling hook that allows her to lie back while I stand. I am in the process of making a height-adjustable bench affair that easily facilitates me to stand and take her doggy-style.

Experiment and have fun.

2 variations on the same theme. Use a chair without arms. He sits on the chair and you go on top facing him. Much easier than you going on top with him lying down as you can get support with your arms around him and he can support you with his arms under your thighs and bum.
Alternatively, he kneels sittting on his feet and pretty much everything else is as per the chair. With both these positions you can also vary by leaning back supporting yourself with your hands.

I don’t think height really comes into it much ..

Could he sit up on the bed ? Use a chair?

How about the spooning position ?

My ex was a foot taller. He was also fairly broad shouldered and big generally whereas at time I was a size 8 and tiny in comparison. We did exactly what the others on here did, chairs were our friend! Best position for both of us was him sitting and me straddling him face to face or other way round. We also used countertops a lot . Top of the washing machine . Standing up against a wall with me with my legs round his hips (works for the shower too). Spooning. Me on top. Him kneeling.

We used to get some pretty personal questions about how we managed but I can honestly say we never really had to think about it. It just worked. Where there’s a will there’s a way! Have fun .

Stairs 😎

1ft 2 inches between me and dh. I'm 5ft, Dh is 6ft 2. Never been a problem.

Thanks for suggestions. We've been at it for 20 years so genuinely not that much of an issue! Just fancied changing it up a bit ;)