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Too wet

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AloneLonelyLoner · 29/04/2019 14:04

My partner and I have fantastic sex. The best I've ever had to be honest. He's just great. However I get so turned on that I'm ridiculously wet. So wet. It doesn't distract from my enjoyment and having had drier sex I know it's better this way by miles but is it a bad thing for men? Do any other women have this problem and is there a way of avoiding it. I've tried avoiding foreplay but the moment he's within one metre of me it starts! Thanks!

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Paterson8080 · 29/04/2019 14:26

Speaking for myself - as a man - not a problem at all! Enjoy!

xpc316e · 29/04/2019 16:59

May I offer another male opinion? As far as I am concerned, it's a case of the wetter, the better. I cannot imagine how a woman could be too wet. Just to be clear on this, my partner of 16 years is by far the most moist woman I have encountered and I have zero complaints.

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AloneLonelyLoner · 29/04/2019 21:28

Ahhhhh that is so great! Thank you so much. You both have made me feel a lot better. I was really bothered about it. Smile many many thanks!

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dogfish1 · 29/04/2019 22:57

Having a girlfriend who gets too wet can be a real problem for us guys - a bit like one of those other real bummers like having too much spare cash, looking too much like George Clooney, or being forced to take a paid sabbatical in a ski resort.

You and your partner should make the most of it. He's a lucky chap and is either delighted or completely nuts.

bebeboeuf · 01/05/2019 18:59

My ex complained I was too wet.

My DH does not have any complaints

UnicornDust9 · 01/05/2019 22:17

I have the same problem OP and after a couple of times of having sex with my bf at the beginning I said we should put a towel next to us so I could wipe myself (first time I mentioned it or him).

He was disgusted by the suggestion and said the wetter the better and we are not using a towel.

He loves it and now so do I.

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AloneLonelyLoner · 02/05/2019 18:44

Oh that's so great to hear, although judging by the previous post it's a mixed response. For clarity my partner has never complained (not even a little), I'm just really conscious of it. With my last partner I was so dry we needed lube and I now wonder if that was a telltale sign of the end of things because I'm now the Waterworks!

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Sparkybloke · 02/05/2019 19:29

If you are wet then it is a sure sign you are aroused and speaking as a bloke there is nothing more lovely than an aroused partner with a wet and receptive vagina. Be happy and go for it....I am sure your partner will!

NewMe2019 · 02/05/2019 22:06

I have the same 'problem' OP Grin, my partner loves it! I've never thought of too wet being an issue, more that men love that they turn you on that much.

Osirus · 06/05/2019 00:28

Same here - he loves it and always remarks on it - in a good way!

Blokenamechangesexboard · 06/05/2019 05:45

It's only a problem if the bloke is over a certain age and going for Round 2, ie, no problem at all.

Bouldghirl · 09/05/2019 00:29

I look on it as being wet means he is doing something right. Being very wet means he is doing something very right. Two happy people in a relationship. It’s all good.

StarlightLady · 09/05/2019 08:05

Too dry is a problem, not too wet.

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