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How to blow his mind?!

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mamato3lads · 13/03/2019 11:29

Hi everyone, hope it is not too early for this! Been reading for years, post a fair amount. Really looking for some inspiration here! I have a fun weekend lined up with DH and really want to leave an impression so to speak! We've been together 17 years, sex life always good never dwindled even when pregnant with our 3 DS. However lately he's been wanting to try new things which ive bern totally up for... Vibrating cock ring, anal, massage candle etc which we both loved but i really want to take him to new heights, make it more erotic than ever before, initiate something he'll play over in his mind again and again. I want to drive him crazy basically!! Any 'sexperts' out there with any ideas?!! We're not at all prudish and have experimented a fair amount.. surely theres something new i can do to him that'll blow him away, something i havent thought of!? He loves dirty talk but its very one sided i. E he asks me questions and i answer, id love to whisper naughty things in his ear i just feel so cringe!! BlushAny ideas on what i could say to get me started would be met with joy!
I'm all ears! Xx

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TomorrowsPrincess · 13/03/2019 12:26

Just following coz I love to learn new tricks

PleaseJustSayNo · 13/03/2019 13:26

Prostate massage?

mamato3lads · 13/03/2019 13:54

Prostate massage... Don't know if he'll be up for anything up his bum.. He clearly likes it when i rub around that area... Sorry tmi... But never talks about it afterwards... Thanks for the suggestion tho Grin

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Doggydoggydoggy · 13/03/2019 14:06

Do NOT stick a finger up there.
I did this with an ex once.
Worst mistake ever.

Your finger will stink of 💩 and it takes many scrubbings to get the stench out!

NameChangeNugget · 13/03/2019 15:37

Anal toy on him, my DP comes from this without any penis stimulation, it’s incredible, I get well looked after when we do that Wink

slartybardfast · 13/03/2019 16:01

If want it spicy, it's gotta be Pegging.
My wife nagged me for ages to try it, one day I gave in and she bought a strap on harness with 3 different sized dildos which attach.
The first time wasn't great - she a bit too eager, and quite rough.
These days though, she's a master. It makes her really horny, and we take it in turns to do the same stuff to each other - which I really love.
As for the potential for mess? That's easy to avoid with a little fasting before hand.
You don't know until you try?

mamato3lads · 13/03/2019 16:15

Oooo interesting!! Off to find out more about pegging that sounds amazing Grin

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Banterlope · 13/03/2019 21:41

I might be behind the times, but it looks a bit overrated?

How to blow his mind?!
PleaseJustSayNo · 14/03/2019 07:19

I mean, I'd probably start a bit slower than going straight to a strap on and fucking him. Maybe start with a finger for prostate massage (after a discussion preferably) and go from there...

waterSpider · 14/03/2019 13:53

Maybe see how he reacts to this video ...

(from Peep Show)
slartybardfast · 14/03/2019 18:22

Aah Peepshow! I miss that. Although Jez did have a relationship with a girl and her BF at one stage. It's telly, I know.
Anyway, seeing as I suggested it in the 1st place, maybe it's up to me to defend the deviant depravity that is pegging?

It's a little surprising that there's no other fans? I didn't wanna gross anyone, but this is the sex forum, right? And the OP was asking about how to blow her blokes mind. My mind has been blown alright.
You might have thought about once or twice? Maybe the old man has as well? It's just hard to admit I think.

But it's not the kinda thing that we readily accept in society is it? A conversation I've heard at work goes something like:
Bloke A - wow, the mrs let me use the backdoor last night.
Bloke B - oh, top work! well done chap. You the man

Never likely to hear this though:
Bloke A - wow, the mrs gave me a piledriver last night. I came absolutely everywhere!
Bloke B - err.... see ya.

The internet has made anal more mainstream, either a good or bad thing you'd say. But not pegging, that's still too taboo. We're not into it for the sake of equality, we're just really kinky to be honest. And no, I'm fully straight, and we're 100% monagomous (?) in case you were wondering.
What's incredibly sexy about it, is the sharing part I think. I now know what it feels for her when I'm doing stuff to her. And she knows how I feel when I'm doing the same things to her. Doesn't that sound interesting? This is the only way I can think of that would allow that.

The only thing we don't love is the pegg porn out there. It's almost all humiliation of man getting battered by a dominatrix. Perhaps that's how others do it?

PleaseJustSayNo · 14/03/2019 19:34

I don't think it's deviant or depraved, what people enjoy and practice is purely up to them. So long as its consensual and they enjoy it then each to their own. What I was saying is I'd probably start of a bit slower than straight to trying straight up, full on pegging haha

Doggydoggydoggy · 14/03/2019 20:10

Personally, I don’t ‘get’ anal and I don’t understand why it has become mainstream.

As I said, stick your finger up there and it comes out stinking, although maybe the fasting mentioned stops that, i don’t know, I am not willing to try again.

A number of women I have spoken to have backed up the poop on finger also although others have not noticed it.
Maybe it’s diet related, who knows!

Pegging, I’m not sure I would say depraved but I think a lot of people associate it with homosexuality hence a lot of men refusing anything like it.

I just think, what is wrong with good ol regular sex..
Different positions, different locations, throw some oral in there jobs a good un’!

Maybe I’m just really boring! 🤣

LittleMissFunTimes · 14/03/2019 21:32

Full netting (crotchless) bodystocking

Send him teaser pics and videos the day before you go away

As for something a bit less full on than pegging... I recently bought an amazing little bullet vibrator from Ann Summers. My DP enjoys the vibrations when I use it on myself when he’s inside me. I also play around with having it inside me at the same time as him. If he already likes being played with in that area then you could use the little vibrator instead and just see how far you get...

Also... do you video your sex? Very hot

SkinnyPete · 14/03/2019 22:17

You hand him some ropes and tell him to tie you up and do whatever the fuck he wants to you Smile

Don't forget a safe word.

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