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Let's talk about...Vibrators

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Lovingmy40s · 06/03/2019 16:05

So I told my DP I want us to buy a vibrator, he did mention it previously but only during sex, and we didnt really look into it, now we are both excited to get one or maybe 2 Grin
Any recommendations on what to buy? so many things out there....Lovehoney is very good, but I dont want to end up buying something we won't both enjoy and then put ourselves off!
Recommendations would be appreciated


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AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 16:09

LoveHoney has discussion boards and very comprehensive product descriptions and videos.

There is plenty to go at there. No need to start a thread to chat about sex toys here.

baileys6904 · 06/03/2019 17:41

Not sure why there's no need to start a conversation here, I think sex toys are more than an acceptable addition to a relationship.
Ann summers is obviously a good starting point, and u can make a more fun experience with the parties and some friends and a bit of a girls night. Love honey is also a good one but without the shops and online only.
I would say you need to work out what's your 'thing' . Different woman have different earth movers, so to speak.
If clitoral stimulation is what makes your knees weak, then look for a wand. Of its penetration, then a dildo/vibrator. If both, then a rabbit. If you don't know, then a rabbit covers both bits so I can work it out.
There may be other criteria, does it matter how noisy it is, for example. If you're sharing your home( with kids or whatever), this matters.
If you have an Ann summers or something similar near you, just go and see what tickles your fancy ( pun intended).
Sex toys are not seedy or something shameful, we have way passed the era when sex was just a method of reproduction and the woman is not allowed enjoyment. The fantastic time we leave in means we are just as entitled to enjoy it as anyone, so good luck and enjoy experimenting !

ShabbyAbby · 06/03/2019 17:48

Rampant rabbit
I've had almost every model usually have one on the go (a classic, aqua, or Mr Big) and a couple of smaller vibes of different sizes.

ShabbyAbby · 06/03/2019 17:49

I love lovehoney for the discreet packaging! Both them and Ann Summers often have great deals on.

bigchris · 06/03/2019 17:55

The cordless wand is what you need, expensive but worth every penny

category12 · 06/03/2019 17:58

Shouldn't this be in the sex topic?

MyBreadIsEggy · 06/03/2019 18:00

Love honey are brilliant for product descriptions, reviews and discreet packaging.
(Also good quality but generally cheaper than Ann Summers!)

SauvignonBlanche · 06/03/2019 18:01

Shouldn't this be in the sex topic?

One would think so but as this appears to be the OP’s first post they may not be able to post there. Hmm

babysharkah · 06/03/2019 18:03

Are you so easily offended it needs to be in a different topic?!

category12 · 06/03/2019 18:06

I'm not "offended", but there's a reason there's a sex topic and why it's not open to first time posters.

Wouldyouorshouldyou · 06/03/2019 18:10

Bondara are ok as well. Definitely a rabbit or a wand!

Lovingmy40s · 06/03/2019 18:18

I really didn't mean to offend by posting this!
baileys6904 thanks for the advice it is really useful. Thanks to all of you ladies
I thought this is something to be discussed with real women..and men!
But I will check the rabbits..although I don't want something complicated..

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AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 19:28

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Myyearmytime · 06/03/2019 20:31

Go though a cash back site like quidco for love honey.

Cookmysock1 · 06/03/2019 21:51

Everyone was a first time poster once

SeaweedDress · 06/03/2019 21:55

Maybe next time join a site and discuss current affairs and neighbour disputes for a bit before asking everyone for their sex toy anecdotes? It could look a little forward.

MrsJBaptiste · 06/03/2019 22:08

If some of you are offended 😒 then don't open the thread. The OP's thread title was pretty self-explanatory!

SeaweedDress · 06/03/2019 22:13

No one’s ‘offended’, just pointing out the tiresome regularity of new posters who have apparently joined Mn purely in order to get women to talk about sex toys.

AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 22:20

My first post was to reply to something inocuous in chat

Not just straight into asking folk about how they like their clitoris to be stimulated

AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 22:22

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MrsJBaptiste · 06/03/2019 22:22

Well does it matter? We all like to talk about different things... 😉

justasking111 · 06/03/2019 22:22

Well have been here years and never known there was a sex topic. It is well hidden.


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AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 22:24

The sex topic us not "well hidden"

If you are a "new" poster you cannot contribute. For obvious reasons. Nothing to stop you using another topic to get women sharing their orgasm tips though.

peekyboo · 06/03/2019 22:30

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SeaweedDress · 06/03/2019 22:32

The sex topic is exactly where you would expect it to be, under ‘Body and Soul’.

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