Is it just me?!

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NC for this one!
My oh and I probably only have sex about once a month, he's older than me and has admitted he doesn't get the urge as much as he once did. I'm fine with it and when we do do it it's really good! For me at least...
But recently I've found that he doesn't seem to want to or can't finish inside me. I end up having to do it quite literally by hand which is fine but makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me down there?
Does it not feel good enough? He seems to enjoy sex and doesn't have any problem keeping an erection but I'm feeling really self conscious about the ending.
Anyone else's partner do this? I'm really confused

It can be a too much wanking issue.
Their own grip is different.
Google 'death grip'
No it's not that it doesn't feel good so don't blame yourself. It could be he has desensitised himself to ejaculate into a vagina, if it is that.

Do you take the pill? Does he have a reason to be worried about pregnancy?

Maybe he just prefers to finish onto you. Maybe he's turned on by you finishing him with your mouth or hand?

Next time you could try a whispered "come inside me" and see how he reacts...

There are many people who don't orgasm easily from PIV.

Could be a sensitivity issue caused by either death grip or simply age. Apparently age can cause this. How old is he? Could be related to fitness, is he exhausting himself? Again age related.

How old is he? Nerve endings and brain cells die off so maybe he is not just as sensative and needs more friction.

I've found as guys get older, they are more likely to orgasm through handjob or blowjob than penetration. (This goes double if you're using condoms, and also goes double if he's circumcised.)

I'm a bloke and can guarantee you without doubt that its nothing to do with you. There are many reasons why we cant finish inside but each and every one is a male issue thats occurring at that particular time.