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How weird is this?

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lemonface · 17/02/2019 15:40

I fantasise about my best friends.

I am with a man and have been for 20 years but I never fantasise about him.

How bad is this ?

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AllGoodDogs · 17/02/2019 20:47

I don't fantasise about my husband. He's reality, the whole point of a fantasy is that it's unobtainable, no?

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lemonface · 17/02/2019 21:59

Okay so do you think that it is okay for me to do this? Sorry to ask - if it sounds ridiculous I have no idea if this is normal or not.

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AllGoodDogs · 17/02/2019 22:45

Is it OK for you to fantasise? Of course it is. Am I missing an obvious reason as to why it wouldn't be?

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NotTheFordType · 18/02/2019 07:15

Christ. Do you not read any sex-positive blogs?

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lemonface · 18/02/2019 07:48

Thanks for he responses. But these are my best friends and I'm always thinking of having sexual with them, surely they are not doing this about me and most people don't either? If it's normal then great. What are sex positive blogs?

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lemonface · 18/02/2019 07:48

Sex not sexual

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Christian77 · 19/02/2019 17:18

We fantasise about things which are within our thoughts, but without our reach.

By definition, we can’t fantasise about our partners.

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Christian77 · 19/02/2019 17:20

It’s pretty normal what you’re describing, so fantasise away!!
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lemonface · 19/02/2019 19:28

Thank you Christian77. I never heard of that before so thought it a bit odd and also feel a bit odd when I see my lovely friends as I've been imagining all sorts about them Confused. I feel better now anyway Smile

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