Largeness. And this is the Sex board so don't be offended.

[PatPhoenix]

Ok [cough]. I believe I am soon going to have sex with a person with a large penis. A very large penis. Though it's possible he's just a really good photographer.

Any top tips?? Positions to be wary of? it's all been easy peasy for the previous 15 years as previous partner was pleasingly compact.

Would imagine it's probably
Take it slow
Plenty of foreplay
Try you going on top to control it

I went from a partner with a compact penis to one that is very large indeed.

It's fine as long as I am very turned on which generally has never been a problem.

He's far more gentle than my previous partner too.

Sex is amazing

That's really reassuring, thanks Spring. Just slightly intimidated, it's helpful to hear from someone who's been there.

The mind boggles as to how you have seen a photo first but who am I to judge?

Your body is flexible but very large can be uncomfy so a lot depends on how skillful he is. If he is going to use it to give you a lovely internal massage that is good. However, some men have the tendency to think they have a battering ram.

You may be better off on top but you might not be comfortable with that the first time. And ensure he gives you plenty of oral first.

Make sure you engage in plenty of foreplay first and take control. Once you’ve had the pleasure, nothing will ever be good enough again

Enjoy!

Brace yourself :)

Lots of foreplay and oral, then you go on top as gives you more control of depth and speed...

Tbh though I had a partner like this, it didn't work, much as we tried (for years) as I used to end up sore and with cystitis.

Make sure you're "ready" lots of foreplay etc. Try and relaxed (I know this can be difficult when it's your first time with someone!)

Word of warning some guys think being well endowed is enough and don't bother with technique.

It could be the camera angle as it's easy to make them look bigger than they are. However I once split up with a guy because it was too big!!

On another note I discovered when dating I can't receive photos like that before meeting them. I just sit there thinking "I've seen your willy". I know that makes me sound like a ridiculous person but I can't help it!

Thanks all. I've never done this before so we'll see what it's like (when I last dated we wrote to each other on vellum with a quill pen, though the odd saucy sketch was allowed). I'm actually rather braced by it, I didn't think I would be into it, but not only am I extremely into it, I think it will reduce the tension of the 'big reveal' moment, both ways. I always found it difficult to sound appropriately appreciative, especially tbh if there was a kernel of disappointment there too. And getting kit off first time is not relaxing at this age. Onward Britons!

Well enjoy it. An ex of mine was rather large, and once relaxed and turned on...it was an extremely good experience which secretly I do miss a teeny bit lol

Lube!

This is one you’ll have to tackle head on.

You asked about positions to be wary of. Doggy is one to be really really careful of. If he is at all rough/over-enthusiastic he will ram your cervix which is very painful.

Just to manage expectations, the very well-endowed ex I slept with was not a good shag. Give me girth over length any day.

PatPhoenix with your username perhaps you should imagine he is Ken Barlow, or your real-life son-in-law Tony Blair!

Lots of forplay and lots of additional lubrication. Spooning is nice, doggy hurt a bit, on top a bit more controlled (by me) missionary also ok. I found it far easier to orgasm with different leg positions in missionary ie move one of my legs under his in a sort of tilt position, if that makes sense? Get far better clitoral contact.

Lucky you!!! Lube and lots of foreplay!