I can't stop masturbating (F)

[floribama]

Posting here for traffic.

DP and I haven't had sex in months, it never lasts long enough to satisfy me & DP is a bit of a prude & refuses to go down on me etc, etc.

I've lost interest in having sex now, because all I masturbate every morning and I do watch porn.

I'm horny often, but not for DP.

Reckon we can get our spark back and ever enjoy sex again?

Sorry to hear that Glue but I know he isn't have an affair.

Homophobic too, what a catch

A man who doesn't eat pussy would be a deal breaker for me

A man who doesn't eat pussy would be a deal breaker for me*

Classy girl.

I guess my main question is: are you happy with this status quo? Is the porn and self servicing enough?

I think there is no right and wrong here and it all comes down to how much each partner needs the physical intimacy and how important it is to them

I had a friend tell me something similar about her once after a few wines but think that case was different because her DP DID want sex, she just preferred doing it herself.

A man who doesn't eat pussy would be a deal breaker for me

And the number of men who'd bloody kill for thir partners to give them a bit of head too:!

At this rate the popcorn stall will be out of supplies by half past.

He doesn't even let me give him head or a handjob unless he's drunk!

Relatable

I dream about having sex with him a lot, but more so about holding and looking at his cock. It's all very sad

And the number of men who'd bloody kill for thir partners to give them a bit of head too:!

Imagine if we suggested to a man that he leave his wife because he didn't get oral every now and then?
No, we'd suggest he'd broach the subject, suggest counselling, taking things slow, go at her pace etc etc.

You lot are all LTB, selfish git etc.

They can't bloody win! If he was all over her, she'd complain he was a pest.

cock

#leastfavouritewordever

Yeah me too, it's awful, dick is worse, but saying penis makes me feel worse

Maybe just don't say anything......

I dream about having sex with him a lot, but more so about holding and looking at his cock

you need a lover.
I think you love him because hes so unavilable. Hes obviously not able to and unwilling to even meet any of your basic needs, and hes shit in bed. Not surprised youre wanking every day.
When I was in a sexless relationship, it made me feel pretty frantic about it.

Do u think it's just a rut and u can work on it? It happens when u have DC, work, etc..
If u do really love each other u can get over it.. oral isn't the only way he can pleasure u

@floribama I didn't mean it in a judgy way, I genuinely have an interest

NoArmani I actually spat my tea out reading your comment!😂😂 never a truer word spoken ,)

You are in your prime, can you cope till you are older and maybe have a bit less sex drive? If it was because of illness or abuse you might accept it more or there could be therapy. There are more ways than just PIv to satisfy you. Your problem is that he's not interested, too shy or prudish, or lazy and selfish. Suggest counselling, say it's driving you to distraction, if he won't speak or seek help (some people just not very sexy) you have to look at your options and weigh up what matters most. Nothing wrong with wanking, just it's not what you want.

I couldn't stay with him.
I love oral and I love sex.
I know some are happy to fuck a couple of times a month, it's not for me. Nor is having a selfish lover.
Don't know why people are asking how you find the time, it doesn't take long to 'knock one out'. Even when I have a compatible sexual partner I masturbate a lot and because I really know my body, it's also easier to guide new lovers and if they don't care well, they don't get a second chance.

There's no saying her drive will reduce with age.
I'm in my 40's and it's the same as when I was in my 20's just I am more aware of my likes and won't settle for not being satisfied like I did when I was younger.