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Female orgasm/squirting help

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ru345 · 19/12/2018 11:06

Hi all, it is only recently I discovered that a woman squirts and now in a position to be squirted with an active sex life I have found I can’t squirt dispite an experienced partner who knows the technique of G spot stimulation!

I came close to what felt like I was going to pee and trickled a little. So held it back. Is this squirting or peeing? however I notice after sex I have to rush for a pee and I have an orgasm in the toilet as I pee is this then squirting?
Help how do I squirt?

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Wherearemymarbles · 19/12/2018 11:17

Why would you want to?
Adds a whole new meaning to the wet patch!!

I dont think there is anything to say that a woman who squirts has better orgasms that one that doesnt.

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lilyheather1 · 19/12/2018 13:24

You don't need to squirt to have a penetrative orgasm.

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Scott72 · 02/01/2019 08:06

I'm not sure if squirting is real or a myth. If it were real, it would be rare, the amount of fluid would be small and would probably be similar to male ejaculate. The squirting you see in porn is water or pee.

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wishywashy6 · 02/01/2019 09:56

I squirt. A lot.
It's definitely not pee (it's odourless and colourless) and if my BF stimulates the right place I have no control over it. It's a very intense orgasm when it happens but I can still orgasm without squirting.

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MarieG10 · 03/01/2019 06:58

Well I would love to be able to but never have and think it is a bit of a myth, although clearly not if you read what another OP has written. I know it was a topic on a tipsy girlie night when confessions occurred lol...but no one had ever managed this or at least confessed to it.

I would be interested to know how it is triggered?

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wishywashy6 · 03/01/2019 07:36

@MarieG10 for me it's usually when there's clitoral stimulation along with penetration, although not immediately there's usually a build up to it. Orgasms without the mess are good too though, it's not something I set out to achieve it just happens! Blush

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Bear60 · 03/01/2019 14:48

I'm a male in my mid 50's. I have never been with a woman like my current partner. She 'squirts' through both oral & penetration. When we first DTD she thought there was something wrong with her (as it had never happened before nor had I experienced it). I think it helps that we fancy the pants off each other and we are totally relaxed. Does make a mess though!

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Newman2018 · 03/01/2019 15:01

I’d second what Bear60 just said. I had the pleasure to have some brief encounters with a woman who did this. We both fancied each other somewhat rotten and the sex was mind blowing. She would have multiple orgasms and squirt on each occasion. Yes, quite a mess but hugely enjoyable and great fun. Apparently she’d never done this before either!
Talk about the one that got away......

Sorry if that’s TMI - just thought I’d share.

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ru345 · 07/01/2019 00:12

Hi all managed to have a squirting orgasm 3 of them it went everywhere and I was like jelly for hours after and non stop giggling weird effect but boy it’s mind blowing don’t know if I will ever experience another one as ex knew where to touch it was different to the others as this clear fluid squirted out couple feet across room I had no control it was not wee as a creamy discharge then clear fluid.

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NameChangedUser · 07/01/2019 14:18

Great update OP!

I've name changed for this topic but just to share my experience...

I was in two minds about the whole woman squirting thing. I thought it was one of those things that either your body does, or does not do.

I fell in to the latter category, until very recently Blush

Am with a new partner and OMG he does things I've not experienced before. Without giving TMI I can safely say that it is most definitely not wee and it's a completely different feeling to having a clitoral or PIV orgasm.

Enjoy it whilst it lasts... that's what I intend to do Grin

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NotGoodieTwoShoes · 07/01/2019 14:48

I think it happened to me once, but I'd like some more - what is the technique that makes this happen?

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ru345 · 08/01/2019 18:27

@NotGoodie sadly only had that one experience as ex and I split up now and I doubt I will ever meet another man who knows the female body so well!

Shame as the sensation lasted hours after but I will never forget it and he was turned on by my squirting too... I have watched videos after but cannot seem to do it myself Confused

@NameChanged I am so jealous ...Wink

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NameChangedUser · 08/01/2019 19:21

@ru345 don't be disheartened! And although I know it was only lighthearted there's no need to be jealous!

I honestly thought I'd never find anyone better in bed than my ex... but after being single 2.5yrs I seem to have struck gold with my new chap.

The same could apply to you...

@NotGoodieTwoShoes In terms of technique, I don't think it's a "one size fits all" we're all different and from my experience it's about finding someone you're truly at ease with to be able to relax enough to allow it to happen.

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MassiveMug · 09/01/2019 23:02

I should’ve really name changed for this reply but hey ho Blush

I have squirted with pretty much every partner, or should I say gush Blush. It’s very messy and the sheets end up soaked and it’s definitely not wee as it’s clear.

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SimplySteve · 13/01/2019 14:45

There is a spot on the top vaginal wall, past the g spot. The wall moves upwards and becomes textured, it's about the length of a middle finger. Basically, stimulating this area, pressure against the wall, when it moves up obviously there's a set hard area. Pressure is great, stimulating the textured part is great. Also, stimulating the a spot at the same time has explosive results.

Ejaculate is not pee. It's sweet, odourless and clear. It's stored in the Skene's gland (which sit between the vulva and the urethra. When stimulates the glands produce the fluid, and correct stimulation causes the liquid to be ejaculated via the urethra (hence trace amounts of pee). Just like a man's ejaculate contains trace amounts of urine!

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