Wet spot?

[StressedGuy]

Can I just clarify this wet spot business?

Do I assume that this is caused by not cleaning up adequately afterwards and allowing stuff to trickle out onto the sheets?

The reason I ask is that in all my years, I've never experienced a 'wet spot', as I/we/she has always had something to hand to put in place once we're done, so there's never a wet spot to have to deal with and I thought this would be automatic common sense.

Or are people saying that they get so wet during sex that it runs down onto the sheets? If so, I must be doing it wrong or have had nothing but dry partners all my life.

Genuinely curious.

I think you're just conscious of what's going on and deal with the problem properly. Some people lose all control and sense during sex and get stuff everywhere. The same sort of people who find condoms "kill the passion" because they had to pause for a whopping 20 seconds.

Loosing all control and sense sounds wonderful. The first few times.

Fast forward 20 years and it's 'can you reach my boxers from there?'

LOL

Depends on the mood, sometimes it feels like we need guttering around the bed.