AIBU to ask if you use any sort of sex toys?

[BootsMagoots]

I mean, I know it would be unreasonable if I asked a random stranger in the street

But, well, do you?

I am 30 and married to good man. Been together since 16. We have one child and have lots of sex... but I rarely orgasm. When I do it's brilliant. Sometimes it leads to frustration for me and anxiety for him because it takes so long and still doesn't happen. I wanted to get something to help me, erm, you know, but haven't any idea where to start? It's got to the point now where we don't even try to "sort me out" because it won't happen.

I suffer with a bit of sexual anxiety so hate talking about this kind of thing with my husband. I usually just talk jibberish and kill the moment.

Sorry if it is a bit much, but I'm really just after any reviews/recommendations.

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**JabberWabber

I have a husband who's really good in bed, no toys needed.

Never really understood sex toys tbh, just seems like something people with an unsatisfactory sex life would need/want. **

What a load of shit. I have a great sex life with a husband who makes sure I orgasm (normally a few times) before he ever does.

You know what's fun sometimes? Having a change and using toys/lube/new places etc etc.

OP - the vibrating rings can be quite good, if you've not tried a rabbit I recommend it, pretty impossible not to cum almost immediately with them!

@JabberWabber sounds boring TBH and that your husband may feel threatened by toys etc?

I have an amazing thing called a Doxy and it bloody changed my life. Its a vibrating want that plugs into the mains (so extra powerful) and can deliver a knee-shaking orgasm in less than 10 seconds. Good solo or with someone else, and it works on men too.

Other than that I have a few bullets and finger stims and the like but I rarely use them as the wand has ruined me for other sex toys.

*a vibrating wand, not want.

Omg I bought a womanizer after reading this thread. I've never experienced such intense orgasms! Incredible- thanks for the suggestion here.