I’ve has friends and partners who’ve had 3 somes
My best friend had regular ones with a women and her husband and the other woke guy emitionally attached to my friend so my friend had to have it stopped- it was my friends husbands idea she’s done it with 2 of her friends and him and now he thinks some of her other friends would be uofor it as he inky w ata to socialise with her certain over confident friends.
My friend doesn’t want to do it anymore and her husband wasn’t happy saying he has nothing to lol forward to now????
So I think that in itself is a worry.
My husband did with his ex wife with her friend my husband admits the other women was better in bed and wanted to have sex alone with her and the wife not know - the ex wife had become jealous so it stopped too.
My ex he had several with different people with his ex they did swininging male male female , female male female and his ex hit jealous and it stopped.
Personally I feel if you really love someone seeing them that up close and personal with another will break your heart
Most are drunk or take drugs when doing this.
In a relationship I’d never do this but single I would but STDS are rife and HIV
You won’t know until after how you feel but I wouldn’t want to be in a sexual situation with my husband and another women I’ve told him if that’s what he wants he’ll need to go find 2 other women and I’m not interested - tbh if he did that we’d be over.
Of course there are many many couples that do this but once to start one of you will want more it can be addictive and then there’s a chance one of you or the 3rd person can get feeling for one of the other even escorts can.
It’s a risk
Who is pushing for this mostly - you or your partner ?