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Am I awful fantasising about other men to get turned on?

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twoorangesandabanana · 25/04/2018 17:40

I've been married to DH for 16 years. I love him totally and physically he is just my type so why do I need to fantasise to get turned on when we DTD. I have been doing it for years. Is it just a bad habit like porn in my head? Tried not to do it but just can't seem to get as aroused Sad

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AllFallDown · 25/04/2018 18:15

It's fantasy. It doesn't matter. Don't beat yourself up about it.

Janie143 · 26/04/2018 13:13

I bet your DH does the same

idlikemoresleep · 26/04/2018 21:20

Better than doing the shopping list in your head like I used to with my ex husband 🤷‍♀️😬

Joey7t8 · 27/04/2018 08:29

Loads of people do this; there’s nothing wrong with it!

balsamicbarbara · 02/05/2018 01:50

If you're okay with him watching porn every now and then, it should be cool for you to indulge in this too. If, however, you'd flip at him having some fantasy on the side too, that'd be a bit uncool.

PankyE · 12/08/2018 01:57

I totally fantasize about numerous unknown men while having sex with the love of my life. Hehe. Whatever buzzes your bean!

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