Help spicing things up

[Mimimouse4]

Please help!!

Been married for years and to say our sex life is boring and predictable is an understatement!

I love my DH very much but really want things to change. I've tried talking but nothing helps.

My confidence is at an all time low I always try to start things and most of the time get rejected.

We are going away for a weekend in a few weeks and really wanted to make an effort but no idea where to start. Nothing crazy as we literally have sex in the same position and routine every time!

I nervous as I feel like a bit of an idiot trying something but it's getting to the point where I don't know how long I can stay with someone like this so want to give it a last shot!

I think it is rather difficult for you as you will always have in the back of your mind that you will get rejected which will not encourage you. You either sound him out before to see what expectations are, or you throw caution to the wind and take a risk. Why not get some sexy lingerie, and if confident enough, something more risqué, perhaps open fronted? A vibe may be good ( to use together) but sounds like it may be too much of a leap given where you are coming from? But in any event, having a good relaxing weekend where you can talk is always good