Possibly should have name changed for this but whatever. We've been exploring this now and then for a little while but find it difficult to keep the dildo in without much concentration and thrusting doesn't really work unless I do it and id rather it all come from him if that makes sense?
I've seen a few toys which sort of hook over the penis. Do they work? I'd want him anally and the toy vaginally If that makes any diff. Would some kind of strap on be better?!