Sex is boring

[KindergartenKop]

DH and I have two small children and sex is getting dull. Twice a week and in the dark in bed. He finds it difficult to make me orgasm. Has anyone got any ideas about things to try? Books or websites of tips for him?

Take charge. Get some toys. Watch porn together. When we were in your shoes, quickies kept us together.

Put the lights on
How easy do you find it to orgasm?
Are you able to help him?
Talk to him, ask him what he wants, tell him what you want

Definitely going to get some toys. We have talked about it today and he feels the same.
I can orgasm on my own or with a vibe but i find it difficult to direct him to do it properly.

In front of the mirror ensures the light is on and gets you in to some interesting positions you might not necessarily usually have sex in. Sharing fantasies helps encourage some intimacy too, perhaps read some stories available online.