So I can't really explain the pain. Sex was incredible before with dp. Almost every day sometimes multiple times a day. An as soon as I had spd with dd we stopped due to it being agony for me. Plus its like having a barrel between us.
Anyway 9 days post partum we started our sex life again. We used protection but it didn't work and when dd was 9 weeks old, we conceived ds.
Sex is once a week if that. An even less now. He goes for foreplay and its like his nails are like spikes. It hurts do damn much. So I tell him to stop and it isn't deep anymore. Sex too, it'll hurt a hell of a lot. I'm 33w now and it's getting difficult anyway due to bump but I'm getting frustrated. I want to have sex and love it again. I end up doing a bit of DIY cause I'm so frustrated. Sorry, tmi. Has anyone else experienced it to be painful after baby or during pregnancy