January Sex Challenge

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Firstly, I promise I'm a regular poster (been here three years or so) and I'm not some sort of sex troll. Praying the name change works...

DH and I have been talking about a New Years Resolution, and improving our sex life came up.

When we have sex, we both acknowledge that it is amazing. The problem we have is the lack of sex. We've suffered from infertility which has given us both massive blows (not a euphemism) to our sex drive. We want that to change.

We're looking at doing the attached, or at least our amended version of the attached. Has anyone else tried something similar? How did you find it? We're both looking forward to making some proper time for us again!

Sounds exhausting if I'm honest. Good luck though OP

I get it in principle but surely some of those things are not a turn on for you. I’d hate to dress up for example.
Hope it works for you.

Not sure I could be arsed with it tbh, think it would feel a bit forced. If it works for you though then that's great.

I would find the 30 days too much and I would probably use that list to write our own so we just had ones we both like the sound of.
I think I'd aim for 5 a month or 2 a week or something like that.

I am sure there exist people for whom this would work but I think for 99% of people it would be a disaster. Apart from anything else, what percentage of men over 30 could actually have sex and orgasm every day for 30 days?

CheekyChaCha - oh, I reckon theres a few . I'm not sure this would be one for me tho, its all a bit contrived. What on earth is "normal sex"? I'd like to think we would have a conversation about things we'd like to maybe try and then... have a go, but that's generally how it works for us anyway.

We don't have a laundry room. Sad face.

I focused on the laundry room too

I think Day 8 - Outside Sex might be a bit brave in January! Good luck though OP. Change is always good!

I'm presuming it doesn't have to be consecutive days!

I'd have a couple of problems here though - I love being tied up but won't even be blindfolded to play blind man's buff. Just no.

Also wtf is "normal" sex?

If it works for you, go for it!

"choose a character" ugh, just no.

Nothing makes me feel more awkward.

I keep reading quickie as quiche. Can't beat a nice quiche after a shag in the "laundry room".

I could never do the sex with clothes one.

My DH would be very happy to do consecutive days & he's well over 30! I have a feeling I would find it a bit like another to do list - I.e.: not spontaneous. But if you're both up for it then good luck & enjoy op!

Same problem..(lack of sex)
I'd love to do something like this haha!