Has my vibe ruined oral for me?!

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Dh giving me oral has always been my favourite thing about sex! And it's a sure fire way of making me orgasm, as I never do during penatritave(sp?) sex. It's something he often does before we have sex.

We also use toys during sex and have been using them more often recently...

But, dh went down on me the other day and it took aaages! For me to orgasm! My mind kept wandering and it was slow. It made me worry that because my vibe is so effective, that oral has been ruined
Do I need to lay off the vibe for a bit?

yes, i would do if i was you. similar thing has happened to me. lay off it and see what happens.

I was afraid you'd say that!

Any chance you've had a baby? I can't get much stimulation that way since I've had a baby, and I had a c section.

Not recently, my youngest is 4. I'll lay off and see if it makes a difference.

Dh works away a month on month off, so it's nice to have something between his trips!

Is it a strong vibrator on the clitoris op?

I used a strong one once and felt a bit numbed.

Then I bought a womaniser which doesn't rely on strong vibration to bring an orgasm, so there are no negative effects to using it and it guarantees orgasm in the majority of women.

I have to say though that age is prolonging the build up to climax these days. Fantasising helps for me. But it's still slower.

I would invest in a magic wand. It has about 8 different settings. I use mine to get a guaranteed orgasm (and use it on female partners too) but it doesn't numb me up too much so that I can still orgasm from oral.

Previously I used a very high powered toy (think rampant rabbit but mains powered) and I really struggled to orgasm with anything/anyone non-powered for a bit.

It's basically the death grip problem but for women. You just need to abstain for a bit.

Thanks!.... I have a lelo gspot vibe, which I use for clitoral stimulation. It's mains powered and very good!
I use it with dh too as it's the only way I can orgasm during penetrative sex.

I've seen the lelo version of the womaniser, it looks good